How often do you have s*x, now that you have a baby?

Question

Isn't it hard to find just a little quiet time for you and your hubby to be together?

How often are you able to have s*x now that your baby is pretty much attached to your hip?

Answer 1

My son is 7 months old, and since my body healed my husband and I have s*x at least twice a week! We just woked really hard at getting our son on a schedule. Which means he's asleep no late than 11pm and then my hubby and I take some time to ourselves. It's possible. You just have to really make an effort.  

Answer 2

my baby is 7 months old and i still don't have my s*x drive back. i'd say we have s*x maybe 2-3 times a week. not that we can't find time (there's a lot of time when he sleeps and when he's busy playing) .. i just never feel like it. I feel bad for my boyfriend but he'll just have to be patient and i'll just hope he doesn't cheat on me lol

Answer 3

once or twice a week because we are both so exahusted.  hopefully we will get more time to ourselves as she gets older

Answer 4

We MAYBE have it once a month, but that's like planning a time and saying we NEED to have s*x just to get it in for the month.

Answer 5

s*x? whats that?? lol!!

my son is almost 10 months old and my husband and i get around to it maybe once a week if that. he also works nights and sleeps all day long while i take care of our son, so its almost impossible to find time.

if we're lucky our son will take a nap in the afternoon, and if we feel like it we will.

Answer 6

What's that? Just kidding. It is difficult to find time, especially since that's the last thing you want to do after a long day. Just try to psych yourself up for it after baby is in bed. Try buying some       ie and light some candles to get in the mood. We have 4 kids now, so it's a lot harder to find time. I am usually really tired after the kids are in bed. you just have to make time.  

Answer 7

Since he works odd hours 2am-3pm and I take care of the house and the baby and go to college on-line it doesn't happen nearly often enough! At least once a week sometimes more.  

Answer 8

We had s*x roughly 3 times a month and sometime less than that. My baby is a night owl so he usually sleep around 12a.m, when he finally slept, i'll be too tired or my hubby already slept.

Sometimes we're doing some foreplay, and my baby woke up. (he's in the same room with us) All the mood just gone and we'll go sleep.

My baby is 11mths old now.

Answer 9

Yeah, I have a 7 year old and a 9 year old.

Maybe 2 X a month.

Sleep is just more appealing right now.

Answer 10

um.. never. lol. maybe once every couple of weeks. my daughter is 3 months and I am exhausted ALL THE TIME. I love my husband, I am attracted to my husband, but I just don't want to. If I have extra time to do something while the baby is sleeping, I choose SLEEP. He is not a big fan, but he understands.

Answer 11

once a week. I had a child when I married my hubby but she was a good sleeper (never woke up during the night) and never gave us problems, then came my son and oh boy our s*x life became almost non existent for the first 4 months of his life. Now it's getting better now that he is older but it's hard, after I put my kids to bed all I want is a little space ya know? because they are in my face all day. But my hubby became very bothered about our s*x life so now we try to do it once during the week and once on the weekend. Good luck and it will get better I promise

Answer 12

Usually once a day, sometimes twice if she's napping at the right time, mostly and available opportunity. Sometimes I am too tired or something, but that rarely happens, but it sucks because my BC has significantly lowered my s*x drive, I just do it every day for him.

Answer 13

My baby is 5 1/2 months old and I think we have had s*x probably 4 times since he was born!!

Answer 14

s*x... what's that again?

Answer 15

Never, lol. We are not in bed at the same time, our baby doesnt like sleep :)

We are taking shifts with her, so until she adjusts, I guess we go without, lol.

Our baby is 8 weeks old and we also have a 6 year old.

Answer 16

welll, my son is three months old and we have had s*x about 4 times a week since he was three weeks old. before that it was 5-7 times a week or so

Answer 17

Once a month, if we're lucky.

But it's not the baby's fault really, we can find the time, but we're too tired! My son is over 2 now.