How often should I "hang out" with the woman I'm dating?

Question

We are both in our 20s. We work together in a large company, so we run into each other quite often. We really like each other, in an old-fashioned, romantic way (so this is not a lust thing). I was wondering if asking her out every two weeks is being too pushy?

Answer 1

I think you should let her decide what's too much or not enough... She can't feel pressured or ignored if you're on her schedule. Take her out, and at the end of the night, tell her you had a great time and ask her when you can see her again...

Answer 2

If you guys are dating I would say that you need to ask her out more often than once every two weeks. Even if you work together, if you are dating, I would go on a date at least once a week, if not a couple times a week.

Answer 3

Every two weeks too pushy, good grief if she likes you she will want to be with you more than that, it shoudl be hard to keep her away.  Old fashioned or not you are being too relaxed, get in there and make her know that you want her and treat her well and look after her.

Answer 4

I would just take cues from her.  Next time you are out...say "what are you doing next weekend?"  See if she tries to put you off and says she's busy, or see if she seems excited about the prospect of spending two weekends in a row with you.  Let her reactions lead you.

Answer 5

No asking her out every other weekend would not be pushing things to much. Since you both work together and do see each other there.  So just take your time and see where things go with each other,

Answer 6

rarely

Answer 7

let her tell you. trust me she will.

Answer 8

Take it as it comes and see each day as it's own process on what to do. There are no answers, friend. But if you like her but see the matter lightly it will be fun, however, get serious with her and you'll pay the price as she'll freak out and dump you. Be cool. Relaxed. Don't care what happens and be open to all possibilities and it'll be in your benefit.

Answer 9

If you had other women to hang out with this wouldn't be an issue.  You're not married, you can date other people, just don't hide it.  It's easy to think a woman is really great when she doesn't have any competition.

Besides, the fact that you are asking a question like this shows that it wouldn't hurt for you to get some more experience with women.

Answer 10

that's way too slow!!! at least like twice a week, if you like spending time with her you should take every opportunity you can, just make sure she has room to breath.

Answer 11

once a week is good. but if she doesnt want that. i would check to see if she would. then see her like one day then wait 7 days to see her again.woman can be crazy sometimes when they think u arent seeing them at all.

Answer 12

she could get u for harassment .  stop and she may come around.leave her alone. u may lose ur job.