How old do you have to be in canada to cut off from parents?

Question

i live with my step mom and my dad. my step mom is a f****s *****. i know its harsh but seriously that woman has ISSUES she can never leave me alone literally if i'm sitting upstairs she will start yelling at me that i never do any housework, no it doesn't count that i just finished vaccuming the whole house & washing both washrooms. basically when i'm not doing housework for her shes complaining about me. she is an illeterate ***** she dropped out of high school in grade 10 & she works in a factory. i totally understand that it must be hard & i crack her back for her every night (LOL i know it sounds wrong :P) but its like stop being so bitter. its just how she is, even on the holidays. also she has an issue with me being on the computer. ANYTIME she sees me on the computer she will go "all you ever do is sit on your ***" its like wtf i JUST got on here? i might sound like a stupid unappreciative teenager but i swear i am saying all of this LITERALLY. she left my dad for a week about a month ago because she wouldn't stfu about his wrinkled shirts hes like if you hate them so much you can leave my house then she left & wow d**n it was like heaven. LOL i could actually watch t.v., play a game, go on the computer or do normal 14 year old stuff without feeling guilty! also i washed all my clothes & dishes, it was a pretty sweet deal =]. well now shes back, today we had guests over that are her age & i served them their food & came upstairs, when they left she got her fat head in my face like "HOW DARE YOU LEAVE TO WATCH TELEVISION!!!" & its like my little brother (her real child) left to go to the lake with his friend, why isn't he in trouble? i just hate her i can't deal anymore plus my dad only takes my side SOMETIMES most of the time he will make me do all the housework too she tells him its for my own good & it will help me when i'm married =|. besides my dad is only here every other day he works one day, home the next, etc. so i have to spend everyday with her (expect she works from 6am to 5pm). i have decided i am just WAY fed up i spent the weekend at my aunty's one time she was telling me she wishes her kids were more like me & it brought tears to my eyes to finally hear a thank you just for washing the dishes =], i'd rather live alone then here & it would be peaceful, i`ll get TWO freaking jobs i don't care i just can't stand this fat ***** anymore ugh.

Answer 1

two jobs at 14 years old? how much do you think you are going to make??????  and you say she is uneducated???  what do you think you are???  

wise up little girl you are no no position to be talking all this bull$hit.  go clean your room and stop complaining.

Answer 2

**** Kris A, im 14 and i dont blame you **** that ***** some1 told me to do that i deff go live with another realitive. f*****k T H A T *********

know what i would do get back in her face and say liten lady why dont u do anything u peice of lard..go back to school ang get a real job u drop out dummy =D juss be bitter back =)

Answer 3

It is hard enough when the person giving you orders is your biological parent - but worse when it is a step-parent.

In Canada you should be 17 or older to go out on your own.  I suggest you go to a youth counsellor at the Ministry of Children and Families.  

Get some alone time with your dad and tell him how unhappy you are living with this woman, ask him to help you out by finding another living situation for you.  You should not stay with someone who does not know how to treat you with respect.

You have rights as a young person - you are not her servant.

If you cannot get an appointment with the Ministry of Children right away  use the youth help line and talk to someone who could give you some helpful suggestions on how to deal with this woman.

I feel sure you are a good kid but some people have no parenting skills.

When school starts-up again in the Fall, seek a school counsellor to help you out a bit.

Good luck