How old were you when you met someone that lights your fire?

Question

I haven't found someone that I click with yet. Its either there is no attraction or the guy only wants me for s*x.

I am 23.

Answer 1

I was 14 the first time I fell in love, which sounds ridiculous but it's true.  I am 34 now and looking back on all the girlfriends I had I can HONESTLY say that we were in love.  And it all started with a glance, a smile, and 5 seconds of eye contact.  We dated for over a year and a half before breaking up, both of us believing that we met 4 or 5 years too soon.

Answer 2

35...sorry!

Answer 3

well a long time ago, but knowing what I did back then and knowing what I know now, I don't know how I felt that way.  Be careful things change.

Answer 4

18 and we're married now and happily. You're keeping company with the wrong sort of men if they just want you for s*x. Are you meeting these people in bars or clubs by any chance? Meet someone through a friend or at work or something instead, they're more genuine that way.

Answer 5

I was about 4.  I wanted to roast marshmallows but I wasn't allowed to play with matches.  I had to have an adult light my fire for me so that I wouldn't burn myself.  

I would expect that by 23 you should be able to light your own fire.

Answer 6

I was 22, but he was 30.  Heck, my sister is 34 and still hasn't found the "one".  

Everyone finds their "one" when the time is right.  Just live life and concentrate on yourself.  Make sure you can make yourself happy.  Once you stop thinking about it and stop concentrating on it, they will walk into your life without any notice.  For some reason, it just works that way.  

Answer 7

I was 22 when I met my husband. We just got married about a month ago. I had some bad relationships before him, but like they say, "When you know, you know."

Good luck! You'll find who you are supposed to be with!