How old where you?

Question

As you can tell by my displace name, I'm going to be a mom at the age of 14.

But as it becomes closer to the due date, I feel like I'm the only girl underage who has gotten pregnant. As all the people on here who are judging me, I was wondering....

Who here has gotten pregnant, at what age?

And did you keep the baby?

And for the people who dont have kids,

at what age did you loose your virginity.

Answer 1

I got pregnant at 19 and had my son at 20.  Some people might think that is too young.  However I was established in a long term relationship and we were financially stable.  We now have 2 kids, 4year old boy, 8 month old boy, and we are expecting our third in early January.  We are financially stable enough so that I can be a stay at home mom.  So anyone out there who likes to think that I was too young maybe I was.  But My husband, myself and our kids have a really good life.  So judging people on only how old they were when they had their first child is a little unreal.

Answer 2

Ummm... I'm not judging you, but to answer your question:

No, I don't have kids. When I was a young girl, I decided to wait until marriage before having s*x, and that's exactly what I did. I was 22 when I married my now hubby, who was also a virgin as well! We've been married for over 6 years now and been TTC our first child for 2.5 years.

Answer 3

I lost mine at 16, I am 32 yrs old now and do not have any kids (by choice.)  I think it was still a bit too early at 16 anyways, but I did use protection.

Answer 4

People judge you because MOST teenagers cannot support a baby. That's just the case. At least you're taking some responsibility and having your baby. Just be the best mother you can be. And believe me, you're not the ONLY teenager to become pregnant. It happens more than you think.

My husband and I had our first baby this year, we're both 23 and have been married for almost 4 years. He was the first man I was with and (hopefully)will be the ONLY man I'm with. I understand it's hard, we were even accused of being too young for a baby. You just do the best you can and somehow it works out.

Answer 5

CAN'T TELL YOU NOT NICE TELL SOMEONE YOUR AGE.

Answer 6

20 and 22

Answer 7

I was 17 when i lost my virginity. I had my first daughter when i was 21 and now pregnant with my second daughter at 24.

Answer 8

ok i am not judging you! but i personally think that you are waaay to freakin young to have s*x and i cannot believe your pregnant! i was 18 when i started having s*x but i havent had any babies yet...well...you keep it if you want or let someone adopt it...that is all up to you and him..good luck! i mean it in a good way...do good!

Answer 9

I know at your age is difficult because of your age. I know i ran from my house at that age and went to live with my boyfriend that now is my husband. But we make mistake and we learn from them. Is very to judge someone what they are going through. I got pregnant with my first child by the age of 17 and the age of of 25 with my second child who past away after birth and with my third child at the age of 26.

But if you would to talk in private email me back for i could give my cell phone

Take care you and your baby

And almost forgot i lost my virginity at the age of 14

Answer 10

I am Proud that You had the responsibility to keep your kid!

I lost my virginity at 17 got pregnant at 18 then got married at 18 my baby was a stillbirth, got pregnant again at  19 going on 20 had my daughter at 20 I am now 22 with a 2 year old princess and 8months pregnant with a boy and happily married! all with the same guy, my hubbie!!

Answer 11

I was a virgin until I was 20.  I had my first child at 27 and my second at 33.  I'm 34 now.

As for people judging you.......it happens.  People will judge what you do, how you do it.

My H is white (I am black) and I am sure that people judge us because of it.  

In your situation, yes you are 14 and pregnant.  No, you shouldn't be but what is done is done.  There are no do overs.  The key for you is to NOT make the decision that got you to this place again.  You don't want to be 20 with 4 kids in tow.  Take it as a lesson learn.  Learn from your mistakes.  

There will be people that judge you for the rest of your life.  You have to make sure that you are making the best decisions for yourself and own your decisions.  Understand that you are not yet an adult and continue to respect your elders/authority and this will turn around for you.  It will be hard but you aren't the first 14 year old pregnant.

Answer 12

My gf is pregnant with our first at 32.  Yes, we are keeping the baby.

Please tell me you are giving the baby up for adoption.  You can't even spell "were".  Geesh.

Answer 13

I lost my virginity just before my 21st b-day...ya I know I was a little late getting around to it. Now at the age of 24 I have no children (well we'll see if I'm prego in a few days...hopefully not). My b/f has a daughter who I consider my own and I'd love to give her a sibling one day but I'll wait until WE are totally ready for another. Congrats to you and I know you'll do a fine job with your baby!!

Answer 14

I lost mines at 24.

Answer 15

I am 40 weeks pregnant right now, and I am 21.

Answer 16

I had my first kid at 29.

Answer 17

I was 17 when I had my first baby.

19 with baby number two.

My mother got pregnant with me when she was 15.

My Aunt had her son when she was 15.

It happens alot!

Look at Jamie Lynn Spears!

I lost my V at the age of 16 I think.

Don't let people judging you bring you down. You do right by your child! That's all that is important. No nibby nosy person can make you feel bad unless you let them. You are being very responsible right now and you should be proud of yourself!

Love that baby and be there for him/her and you will be okay.

It's not easy but baby girl, you are not alone!

You have got a baby coming that is going to love you to pieces!

You are young but you will be alright!

Good Luck and God Bless you and your little one!

Answer 18

I was 14 when I lost my virginity.

I got pregnant with my daughter when I was 17. I turned 18 just 2 months after she was born.

I'm now 23, and she is 5.

It's definitely not an easy road, being a single mother.

There are 3 basic options that you should educate yourself about.

1. The one no one likes to talk about, abortion. If you google search it, you find tons of anti-abortion websites, but a few list just the facts. I do not personally support this option, but I do support educating yourself.

2. Adoption. Pretty obvious, and there are many resources available online to find out more info and if this is the right choice for you.

3. Parenting. Do you have some sort of support system? Are you prepared to become a mother?

You'll need to ask yourself many questions. As elementary as this seems, make a list of pros and cons against each choice. It is your decision, and if you have family support, take their opinions into account as well.

If you'd like to discuss this more in depth or if you'd like some personal resources and links, please feel free to email me using the link provided on my profile here on Y! Answers.

Answer 19

I lost my Virginity at 13.

Got pregnant at 15.

Had a abortion, not my choose though. [BIG MISTAKE!!]

Got pregnant a month before my 16th birthday and had a miscarriage.

And still dealing with that.

Not im abt to try again.

im out on my own now with my fiance.

Im 17.

Answer 20

22..why didn't u have safe s*x?? i mean ur only 14 that is a really young age to have s*x at..watever dnt abort ur baby make someone adopt it

Answer 21

You are not the only girl to get preganant at 14.  Some have gotten pregnant even younger.  I was around 15 when I lost my virginity.  I was pregnant one time and lost my baby.  I would have done anything to have a baby.  Please do not let people that judge you make you downhearted.  You are very young to be a mother.  Is the father in the picture and what is his age?  Do you have a good support system?  Think long and hard about wheather you keep your baby.  Would you consider adoption?  Maybe even an open adoption where you could see your baby grow up and still be a part of his/her life.  May God bless you and this baby.

Answer 22

Starting having s*x as a teenager, NEVER unprotected.

Got married, had my first at 21 and my second at 29.  

I have a wonderful and supportive husband, but it's still a lot of work to be a mom.

Answer 23

I got pregnant at 15 had him at 16...

I am 17 and pregnant again...

I am keeping this one too..

I am married and in my own house with my 18 yr old husband who is the father to both. :)  We are both in school and do it at home online. I am a stay at home mommy.  He works from about 7-3 or 7-7.  We have big plans for our future.  We are having one more after this one.  :)

You are not the only one in this world.

Answer 24

I myself was an older mom but I know a lot of people who had their babies at your age and with help and determination they ended up just fine. I lost my virginity at 12, but only because I was raped.

Answer 25

Lost my virginity at 17. Had my first child at 33, second one at 35.

Answer 26

Let me say that you are not alone... I was 16 with my first child.. and I felt the same that I was alone too.. but your not you have your heavenly Father by your side no matter what...  I was 18 with my second child that I was actually raped by a good friend of mine.... People will judge you its their human nature in them.. I did keep both my babies and had really rough times but the Lord was always there for me before I even knew him.. at the age 20 I met an older man that is now has been my husband for 12 years we have a son together and he adopted my second child as his own and is a Father to them all the same.. you would never know which is his natural children... two years ago we adopted twin girls so I have a total of five now.. and wouldn't change a thing... please hang in there for yourself and your child no matter what your decision is God will reveal to you.. and will provide.....

Answer 27

Lost my V card at 14 (HUGE MISTAKE)

Got pregnant at 18 (BY MY HUSBAND) and sadly the baby died.

Now I'm STILL trying to have a baby and I can't. I think it's gross that irresponsible children are blessed with the gift of a baby and don't want it and have no idea how to take care of them, so sad.

Answer 28

i lost my V and got prego at 14 also and by the grace of god i had a miscarriage! i knew i was not ready and my life/childhood would have been screwed up. i didnt have s*x again till i was 18 because i was scared to death. and my first child i was 23! my mind and body were ready at that time, i just had to realize it wasnt all about me anymore and get focused! i just had my second at 33 and am married now and thank god i waited again because my patience are thinner these days! and i have a good husband to help me.

i hope at your age, you have alot of support around you and you stay focused on bettering your self as far as maturing mentally and finishing school and taking up a trade or college so when the support is not there you can hold your own for you and your baby and be a good mother and role model. all i ever wanted was to raise good ,smart people. as long as you teach them right from wrong and be real with them you can do it.

Answer 29

16 boy

18 boy

25 girl

Answer 30

i lost my V at 14, got pregnant at 16 and had my baby when i was 17, am still 17 now. i always used protection but it failed. you grow up very fast when you have a baby. just make sure you get loads of support cause you are young. dont have it aborted! and i would say adoption but see once you have your baby you'll be so in love with him/her that you prob wont be able to give them up!

Answer 31

i was 12.  i think i've got all of you beat.  

you have to be responsible though.  By the time i was 14 I started thinking "wow...you know, if I'm going to act like an  adult, I better be prepared to face adulthoood real quick"  

I grew up a lot faster than most people though because certain things.