How recently have you had unprotected relations

Question

but had no intention of having a baby?

I have a fairly steady who I trust to play safe without me and to take her pill but this may be foolhardy. I have ceded control to someone else and I don't want to have a kid. that was last Monday

Answer 1

I'm not going to tell you :-p

But yeah, it is a big risk leaving it up to the girl. Some people can't manage to take the pill quite right. If you don't think you can trust her (and it sounds like you're a little unsure) then use condoms.

Also it depends how much she wants to get pregnant or not. Some girls pretend they don't but secretly do, or even admit they do, and aren't so great with their birth control. If a baby would be a terrible thing for her as well at the moment, you're safer. So it depends how responsible she is.

Harriet

Answer 2

That is a big risk. I wouldnt recommend u continue doing that. Not bcuz u cant trust her but bcuz u have to learn to take responsibility for yourself

Answer 3

I have three pregnancies under my belt, and only one birth. You don't want to end up like that. I've been trying for a few months to have another child without success. The three pregnancies were all unplanned and happened VERY quickly into the start of s*x with them.  A good thought process to follow is, the less you want to get someone pregnant, the more likely it is to happen.

Be smart. Better to protect yourself by your own means than to trust that someone else will do it for you.

Answer 4

ok, sorry to hear that, but don't you think you are asking too much about other peoples life? stay in yours!

Answer 5

You should take personal responsibility for your safety and future.  Period.

Answer 6

I have been unprotected within the month 2x and can afford in any way to impregnate a girl