How safe is our children for over sexed fathers?

Question

How safe is my daughter

My x placed his finger in my child v****a when she was 3 his excuse was he was washing her.

When we got divorced he was having a affair with a 50 year old woman and my daughter witness them having s*x.

The he picked up with a 16 year old school girl and bedded her down and again my daughter witness their games he continued with this girl now she is 18 and going to university and he does not get much s*x from her now.

My daughter then witness her father masturbating in the shower

Now last week he was looking at p**n on his computer whilst she was in the same room.

My daughter is just starting puberty at the age of 10 years.

The police say he has not committed any crime but is not acting in the child best interest in fact rather tacky and discussing .

I don’t know what to think , this so called father does not have any morals , but how far would he go with his sexual frustration

Answer 1

i have a few questions for you..

1. why isnt your ex in jail for molestering your daughter?

2. why isnt your daughters father in jail for illegally being with  

    a 16 yr old school girl?

I dont think she is safe around him at all, you should go to court and get a restraining order on him so he can not see your daughter.

Answer 2

My question is what kind of mother are you?

For you to know that all of this has occurred and yet you still allow your daughter to visit with her father is ridiculous. Not only should she not be allowed around him, but you also for not taking the proper steps to keep your daughter from repeatedly seeing this type of behavior.

This just pi***d me off. Someone should report you for being stupid.

Common sense would tell you that she is likely the next victim.

Get a clue!!!!!!

Somebody has to protect these children or they will continue this cycle and we have all read that it often leads to more violent crimes.  Serial killers, rapist amongst others.

Answer 3

Get your child out of there, dont let her see him, obviously your 10 year old daughter must'nt want to go to her dads if shes seeing that kinda ****, i wouldn't let my children go to there fathers if he was doing that, i dont even let them go now cus he doesnt play child support and wat not. So definately if your worried about your daughter getting sexually abused, then dont let her see her father. Plain and Simple.

Answer 4

I don't know why any of this WOULDNT be illegal.  It's discusting and no child should have witnessed any of this.  You need to talk to the police and if you get the same response, talk to a lawyer and get your child out of there.  He's obviously not trying to hide what he's doing so either a.) he's a complete idiot or b.) he gets off knowing his daughter is watching.  Please get your daughter out of there and into counseling.  It is sexual abuse.

Answer 5

Sweetheart if I were you I would be doing my dammnest to make sure that prick never saw his daughter again- AND I would be doing it quick smart because pretty soon she is going to realise what is going on and YOU will be the one she blames for letting her continually be put into his hands. I mean no disrespect but do something because he is clearly mentally disabled and your daughter is your number one priority.

Answer 6

For goodness sake....get your daughter out of that house and out of his reach. Fend for her.....save her....

Answer 7

if this was my daughter she would not be seeing her father. You don't "accidentally" put your finger in your daughters v****a. This guy has issues, get a lawyer. The fact he was with a 16 year old makes him a paedophile.

Answer 8

I wouldn't let my child go around him anymore.  I don't think you need to let her be in that sort of situatuion.

Answer 9

I would take him to court and prevent him from having any or at least no unsupervised visits with her. I would have already done that when he put his finger in her! Do something to protect your daughter before it gets even more out of control!!

Answer 10

IF he is willingly doing these things in front of your daughter than I think it is time for the courts to step in. You need to get full custody of your daughter and make it to where he can only have visits that are accompanied by court appointed personel. He does NOT need to be left alone with your daughter for ANY amount of time. I don't trust this just by the way you put the post and question. This seems like a situation that could turn horribly bad very quickly and it needs to be nipped in the bud right now! Tell the lawyer everything you said on here and if there is anything else you didnt mention on here tell them that too and he will def. not get any custody rights in this matter. The police may not do anything but the child courts certainly will...dont let this go on any longer because you will eventually regret it...sorry didnt mean to seem rude if I did...just worried...with all the perverts out ther enow a days and most of them being related to their victims you must NOT take any chances especially with these type of signs!

Good Luck

Answer 11

Keep her as far away from him as possible. Seriously get an attorney and do something. All of what you have said here is disgusting and disturbing. You are her protector, it's sad when someone needs protection from their own parent, but in this case she does.

Answer 12

What are you thinking? You do not have to let him see her. If he complains tell him to call an attorney. Inserting a finger in to a 3y/o is a crime BTW. Where do you live?

If you do not want your daughters life ruined and do not wish her to blame you for it, stop this now. he will molest her.

Answer 13

Why are you still around him? I would take him to court and make my daughter testify to what she has seen to get his rights taken away!