How should I be with him. And should I kiss him again? Guys views on the guy needed.

Question

I can't take him seriously..his character is naturally bubbly & confident, which is why.

So if I see him he might give up his chair for me, hug me when i'm cold, stroke my hair, smell my hair. He puts his arm around my waist, he hates it if other guys talk to me. Recently he kissed me with tongues out of the blue when his friend & my friend was nearby.

He doesn't ever text me or call...we just talk on msn. He text me saying do you want to go out with me? before that he'd talk of places to go together but we never did, i went to his house, nothing sexual, just a dinner date with music, watching films, met his parents. He would text me, make sure I got home ok, when i wake up in the morning, but he doesn’t text now. We went on a date after he asked me out & held hands.

After that it was as if we weren't dating. He previously said he was wary about relationships. He was calling & texting my friend. And there’s one girl who he really likes or still does.

Every time I see him though he has to be around me. He wants to kiss me again, but I though it was best not to & he touched my nose & mouth. Is he mocking me in some way? We never meet one on one anymore. When we kissed he told me to call. He keeps talking about things that remind him of when we were close, but if he really liked me they wouldn't be just memories right?

14 minutes ago - 3 days left to answer.

Answer 1

tell him how you feel and set him straight. sometimes a guy needs a kick in the ***.

and if that doesn't work, obviously u gotta move on. hafta be comfortable with the dude unless u think he's seriously worth the trouble.

Answer 2

Get rid of da bum.

Answer 3

hmmm, this guy sounds like my ex, which I gave a boot.

this guy wants to play games with u, as simple as that.

he does things that makes u go uuhhh, and he wants u to fall for him hard. he is entertaining himself by making girls fall for him and his spontaneous acts.

im going to give u a good tip:

when he texts, dont text back

when he calls u, say u are very busy (dont tell him why)

when he says he wants to see u again, go ahead and meet, but go with another guy friend and tell him, "oh, I hope u dont mind me bringing a friend along, right".

and finally, play games with him, BUT NEVER GIVE IT UP.

what will happen after u do this tips: the guy will go nuts and try to be after u, eventually falling for u, and thats is when he will try to challenge his macho side by getting you back in his palm hand with sweet gestures and sweet talk. this is when u give him the boot and say: "sorry, your to sweet and cute for me, not my style and definetly not my type, and blow him a kiss while leaving". this guy will never forget u and never will he break your heart, because u will beat him to it first.

Answer 4

take control