How should I calm down? I find my Mum really annoying.

Question

Hey everyone, please find an easy solution to my problem:

I find my Mum really annoying. I mean like, whenever I'm on my computer or even just in my room she has to come inside every hour or so. At first, it was Ok, but now it is simply annoying me alot. And that is why we have some of our arguments. I asked her once or twice why she has to come in and I think I told her it was annoying but she said that she wanted to check if I was Ok. Like, why wouldn't I be?

And also we argue all the time. I get fed up with her complaining about anything I do. I feel like telling her to shutup and push her out of my room. God, Wat can I do?

Please help me. This is seriously driving me mad. Being angry won't help me in my life (I'm only 12). I need to be happy and my Mum is stopping me.

Answer 1

Tell your mum that if you have any problems then you will come tell her instead of her coming to check you. x

Answer 2

Your only 12. :D Don't worry- when you get older, your mom will become more irritating and rational. Its because your a teenager now my dear. All Moms could do that. Because your getting older, she'll become more protective. When I was 12, I got annoyed of my Mom easily. It'll eventually grow on you, I'm serious. Its the TEENAGE phase!