I'm a male 40 yr. old middle school teacher. Every new school year our staff introduces ourselves to each other again and to the new teachers. My problem is that I'm divorced now and they all want to know details about my own children and how often I see them. Well, I don't mind letting people know that I have kids, but it's hard to explain that I never see them because I'm in the process of letting them be adopted by a stepparent (it's what's best for the kids and will avoid my financial distruction). I'm working closely and amicably with my exwife&her new husband to do this adoption and it's important for me to look like an noncommunicating, uncaring parent and make him look like a god to the children to hurry this legal process along.
Well, I work mostly with female staff and I'm afraid if I look like a failed parent it will reflect on my teaching abilities to them. I can't pretend I don't have kids because some staff already know. What should I say??
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