I have been with my boyfriend for two years and we plan on getting married as soon as we save enough money to get a small place. We are both Catholic, he has been his whole life and I recently converted. My family was unhappy about my decision to convert, but most got over it except my dad. My father and I have never been close (well, not since I was 3 or so anyway) and so I try to pick my battles with him. My dad is really ticked off about me being Catholic and thinks it is my boyfriend's fault. They have never met. My boyfriend knows about my relationship with my father and has seen me cry and get angry with my father because of something he has said or done. I am not sure how I should deal with this situation and when/how they should meet. Basically, they hate each other but have never met or spoken. In addition, my father said he would never go to a Catholic service, but of course that's how I'll be getting married in a few years. When should I mention that to him? I sort of doubt he will even step foot inside the church, and I can't say I would want him to walk me down the aisle either - I'd rather ask my brother to do that.
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