How should I go about becoming "friends" with him?

Question

So I met this guy a couple weeks ago at the bar. He wanted me to go back to his place, but I had to go to my friends first. He told me to call him when I was heading over and gave me his number. When I went over, all we did was make out. He hasn't talked to me at the bar again, and hes there as much as I am. A week ago, he messaged me after the bar and it said "Wanna come over and fukc". I said ya, and I went over. I left after we were done. He was at the bar last night he didn't say anything, and I'm pretty sure he saw me. I messaged him after and it said "Hey, whats up?" but he didn't answer me.I want to be "friends" with him because all my friends are going away to school and I don't know anyone in town anymore. I know I was used, thats all I'd be using him for, s*x. I'm not looking for a relationship, just friends with benefits. How should I do this? Every time we've talked we've been drunk. Any help? Please?

Answer 1

Hey, at least you are not in denial.  You know he was just using you.  Maybe you can tell him that you are not looking for a relationship either. But rest asure that the only time he'll call you is when he didn't find anybody else to take home from the bar. You will always be his last resort, if you are ok with that, go for it.  

Answer 2

Its been a long time since I heard anything this pathetic.  There is no help for you though until you start being honest with YOURSELF.  If its true that all you want is s*x..well, you can get that anywhere. The reason it has to be him is that you already gave him something so precious that you feel he MUST return the favour and at least give you some attention.  Unfortunately, men are different.  He is the hunter and you were easy prey.  The hunt was no fun because you were far too easy.  He will use you again and again if you let him.  (only when there is nothing else to hunt).  If you stop now you can save some of your pride and tell yourself that never again will you do something so stupid, forgive yourself and move on.  We all make mistakes but hey, we need to learn from them not keep making them.

Answer 3

You are a FWB, and have no relationship

FWB has nothing to do with "friends", it has to do with s*x

Luck

Answer 4

yes he will take all the s*x you give him. but as of now that is it. is this what you want.

Answer 5

Forget this obvious loser. He is probably g*y.  Email me and I will take care of your needs.

Answer 6

personally, i'd just go find new friends.