How should I handle rude friend?

Question

One of my close friends,I;ve known this person for close to 14 years, and anyhow she's going to Iraq, and so she moved away, so she came back home, because her kids and family leave here, and she called me to come by and visit, so I went to go visit, her keep in mind I hadn;t seen her in almost eight months, and I walked into the room to where she was at and she just said in a dry voice, Oh hi" and I was a little disappointed because she didn't seem excited to see me , like I was excited to see her,and she barely said anything the whole time,and when we did talk to each other she looked away, and when one of her friends called who I don't think like me very much, called her friend asked If I was with her and my friend and she said oh yeah' like she was playing it off and then she rushed her off the phone, so I went with her to take her kids to the museum and when we got back to her house, we were there for like five minutes and she asks me let's go get you something to eat, and if you

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can't find a parking space when you get back you can just go home, and by that statement I kinda think she was rushing me to leave for some reason, and so we go get something to eat and we come back and I eat, and she's like let's go outside, and we go outside and she's talking to her uncle the whole time, and she starts playing with her kids, and so after I seen that I left, but then a few days later I call her, and she never returns my call....did I do something wrong? why would my friend act so peculiar?

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UPDATE;So a few days later I called and left her two voicemail's asking for her to call me, and she never returned my phone calls, then I sent her a email via myspace, and it shows you when someone has read it, and she ignored my email, and she has been online,so I have tried to reach out to my friend, what should I do now?

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Answer 1

if she's ignoring you like that just let her be for a while... whenever she comes around then explain to her how you feel about her rudeness. if she's a good friend she'll work on it and things will get better. if she insists on being an a** then let her go; you dont ned rude people in your life.

Answer 2

she might suspect something of you and is not sure.

Answer 3

Just ask her plain & simply "Have I done something to offend you"? If she says no & still acts that way, dont waste anymore time on her. I wouldnt chase after a person like that. You may have been good friends before but sometimes people just grow apart. Hopefully she'll tell you whats wrong & you can both move forward. If she wont answer you emails just write one that says "I dont know what you problem is & why your ignoring me but either tell me what ive done wrong or stop acting like a 2yr old. You can be mad all you want but i wont waste my time dwelling on. Let me know when your over it"!! She'll either tell you whats up or come to her senses & see what a child she's being.

Answer 4

Don't worry about it. Wait till she calls you, and then handle the situation.

Answer 5

Sounds like a stranger would be friendlier than your "friend".  Sorry, but I would blow her off for a long while.  That is no friend honey.

Answer 6

It sounds like sometime between when she invited you over to visit and the time you got there, someone (probably the friend that you don't think likes you, or else her uncle) had told her something about you that she didn't like hearing (whether true or not). You have made attempts to contact her and she hasn't responded. I think you have done all you can for now.

Answer 7

That's weird because SHE called YOU to come and visit in the first place, it's not like you just invited yourself to her home. She probably heard some gossip or rumour about you and is acting based on what she thinks is the truth. Or maybe she's just unhappy about having to leave to go to Iraq so she's probably sad and acting like that with everyone.

You should just ask her what's wrong, I mean you've known her for many years, I'd think you two would be able to talk things over by now. Tell her what you told us and ask her what's the deal. Good luck!