My brother and his girlfriend of a few years recently split. He was going to a wedding and needed a date. I was visiting with a friend of mine and he asked if she might accompany him as a favor. She agreed. I felt a little uncomfortable with the arrangement, but decided to suck it up since it was a one time thing. He lives out of town so she was going to drive up that morning to spend the day. It was a non- alcoholic afternoon wedding. I called her the night before the wedding and she didnt answer. The next night she called me. Apparently she slep over the night before the wedding and was going to stay over that night as well. (You know, because of the distance, she said) It's a 2 and half hour drive. During our conversation I heard her turn to him and ask "What Babe?" I was bothered but decided to wait until she was home to talk about it. When she got home I explained to her how unconfortable I was with their "weekend getaway" and how I should have been more upfront with my feelings from the start. She claimed it was nice to get away for the weekend and strictly a friend thing. Basically, I bought it. I spoke briefly with my brother and he acted like it was no big deal, claimed I overrracted. We all moved on.
Now, 2 weeks later. I find out that they have continued speaking and she spent the night over there again recently. When I confronted her she said she had been under alot of stress lately and his company was comforting. I was floored. I thought she knew how I felt and understood. My brother said he was sorry and thinks that's enough for me. Currently, I am not on speaking terms with either of them. Where do I go from here?
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