My husband's grandmother has three sons. All three of those sons are getting an equal share of her assets once she is deceased. All of her grandchildren are also getting an equal share of her assets (less than the sons of course). However, the illegitimate daughter of one of her sons (a grandchild) is also getting the same equal share as the sons rather than a grandchild share. The family is up in arms over this and feel that its "not fair". That this young girl should get a grandchild's share, not a child's share.
I have a very close relationship with my husband's grandmother. Several members of his family have approached me and asked me to say something to her! I, personally, believe that its her money and she can give it to whomever she sees fit in whatever amounts she chooses. I don't fully understand what it is they are so upset about. When I tell them this, they tell me that I just don't understand the situation and something needs to be done. She could say, "s***w all of you" and no one gets anything! I have refused to get in the middle of it and say something to the grandmother (because its none of my business), but now I feel the need to tell the family to mind their own business and stop being money hungry a******s. Should I just continue to stay silent or should I tell these people that its HER money and she can do with it what she pleases? I mean, they did nothing to help her earn all the money that she has, so they shouldn't dictate what she does with it, right?
I hate sticky family situations like these. Sorry that was so long. Thanks in advance for any feedback.
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