Me and my guy friend have known each other for a year now, but we didn't start hanging out till february. We see each other a few days a week, and we usually hang out with a group of friends. He doesn't really text/call me that often, unless I initiate if first. He verbally flirts with me and teases me about stupid stuff. We always party together, and we have made out twice (while being drunk), and he's NEVER tried to have s*x with me either. We first made out at my bday party in march, and that night i told him that i liked him. He told me that he didn't want anything serious at the time. The second time we made out was only a few weeks ago, and afterwards my friend talked to him and he told her that he thought i was really hot but that he still doesn't want a gf. I feel like he does have feelings for me b/c sometimes he'll tell me to be careful or he'll sorta look out for me. At a get-together at the beginning of aug one night, I drank a little too much and got sick. My friend brought me into a guest bedroom of her house and then my guy friend came in the room and laid on the bed beside for about an hour until I fell asleep. I know he is shy b/c he has told me so. He doesn't ever really hang out with just me, and it always seems like he wants a third or fourth wheel around. I'm getting really frustrated b/c i just want to spend time with him alone. I've asked him twice to hang out with me, but both times it didnt work out cause of his car and work. So i'm just too shy to ask him to hang out again, cause I feel like he won't do it unless one of our friends is there. I kinda feel like i need to gain his trust and I know I should just be patient too. Will he ever change his mind, and how long could this take??
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