got married one month ago. I am 20 and he is 28. My parents "chose" him for me because it is part of our family tradition and culture. We did get romantic feelings after some meetings and he had been into me for a long time, if not my father would not have chose him for me. The problem is that I cannot seem to enjoy s*x. I was a virgin until marriage (like other girls in my culture) and the first time wasn't good. I feel like it all went too fast and my husband was too eager. I still feel that he is too eager, but shouldn't he be? I think s*x hurts a lot. Is he giving me too little time to get ready for it? I have tried everything: s**y underwear, candlelights, romantic silk bedspread etc. As a wife it is my duty to please him and I don't want to complain but is there any way I can enjoy it too?
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