How should I resolve my teenage dilemma?

Question

This may sound a little unimportant but I am truly perplexed over the matter. One of the friends I cheer with is having a bonfire tonight for most of our class as an end of the summer event. I wasn't originally planning on going but really should bond with my class. I completely forgot about her bonfire and my other friend invited me to HER bonfire tonight! Her bonfire would include a mix of people from different classes and I already told her I'd go to hers. I truly don't know what I should do. Here's a recap:

Bonfire 1: asked first (didn't rsvp for sure though), cheerleading friend, class bonding time

Bonfire 2: told her I'd attend, get to hang out with my friends from other classes, one of my good friends

please give me some input!

Answer 1

It's hard to enjoy two bonfires in one evening, usually you get there and hang out and time goes by quickly. I would just go to the one that you said yes to . The other one will have to understand that there are other things going on on the same night as hers. Don't feel guilty, this situation will come up again some time in life.

Good luck!

Answer 2

You should go to both!  At the first bonfire say,

"Yo, dawg.  This bonfire is the stainz.  I'm outty.  Word."

Then you can attend the second and if you aren't enjoying yourself say,

"Whazzup with these croink-fests?  Yo, I'm over like Rover.  Peace."

I guarantee you'll never have this dilemma again!

Answer 3

well I personally think that one must adhere to his/her commitments. I guess you shouldn't have said to each of your friends that you're going to their bonfires. what you should have done was to see if your first friend was ok about it. Anyways, I guess it's not your fault you forgot. Solution, if the distance isn't too far, you should go to both bonfires, if not, think carefully about who is the better friend and GO

Answer 4

if you can, try to spend a little time with both of your friends. whatever you do always explain and have good communication with your friends because that is what makes You a good friend. if you can't go to both places at least tell them why, i'm sure they will understand.

Answer 5

I would go to one half the evening and the other next half! I would let both of them know that you goofed up and that your were going to both partys!

Answer 6

You should go to the one you said yes to.  Could you go and make an appearance at Bonfire 1, say Hi to some friends and tell them you've got to go?