How should I respond to this, with my son's 1st mom

Question

I'll be spending a day this week (and more in the future I hope), with my son's 1st mom. My son is 10 months old, and voluntarily placed him with us. If someone asks,"is that your baby", what is appropriate for me to say? I don't want her feelings upset, however, I'm VERY proud of my (our) son. BTW, she has come to me to ask me to adopt again (knocked on the door after being gone for several months, with the 1st dad), and she's due in September. I've offered to help her help herself, but they are wanting this to take place.

Answer 1

you are in a position that you can take good care of the the child you are having with you or the next one if you are adopting second baby as well. I think you should adopt the second baby as well because in that case your children will be siblings to each other.

But you need to be more care full about the things you need to complete all the legal documentations for the baby adoption because never know about things and people. When they turn around upon you. 1st mom of your son might be a very nice lady but still you never know any thing so always keep your ground firm.

And you should tell others that he is your own son as you are the one who is taking care of her more then your self so he is your own son. You should feel proud for him.  

Answer 2

just tell everyone the baby is your child an no one else child only yours good luck