How should I talk to my girlfriend about more...physical situations between us?

Question

She's not a virgin, and done some things and everything, and I know she'll do anything. BUT she loves me, and seems to be taking things SO much slower and easier, don't get me wrong there's nothing wrong with that. I talked to her earlier about doing other things (not s*x, but foreplay between us at least a little) and she said just to ask her and she'd tell me yes or no...and I don't want to go around asking like a perv. or making her uncomfortable..i want her happy, but i think moving on would make us both satisfied in many ways..I just want to know how to bring this up, talk to her, and let her know that i want her to make the first move, so i know she wants to and is comfortable...i don't want to sound intrusive or anything, just confused a little as you could guess. =\

Answer 1

You could slowly start doing something, and then ask her if she's okay with it. That's what my friend and i do, and it works as nice communication. :) Hope i helped at least a little.

Answer 2

use the classic: "i feel like we should take our relationship to the next level, what do you think?"