How should a woman be treated if it is found that she had s*x with someone else before marriage.?

Question

How does it effect the couples?

Answer 1

It depends on how you found out. If it is hearsay then you do not know for sure.If she admitted it then forgive her and let it go . Now if you are the one that she was with keep your mouth shut, and live with it. If you are an embittered past lover ,wishing to break them up. Get over her you putz!

Answer 2

She should be treated like any other woman: with respect. Forgive her, everyone makes mistakes. And if she doesn't seem to think it was a mistake, then maybe she isn't as serious about you as you thought.

Answer 3

Could I turn the question round? How should a man be treated if it is found that he had s*x with someone else before marriage?  I don't understand the question.  Either you are very young or very christian.  You need to find your own answers to this question.  Find your own morality.  Everyone's morality is completely different.

Answer 4

In most marriages, both people have had s*x before getting married. It's not a big deal.  

Answer 5

The same way you'd want to be treated if you had s*x with someone else before marriage...with love & understanding.

Answer 6

marriage is not s*x alone. it is for family life. s*x is a part in it. hence it effects the couple for better understanding.

s*x before the marriage is not a big deal till it does not affect  the personal life of the both involved. so take it is and leave aside for better family life.