How should i act for school,to be popular ....?

Question

I mean i dont get how they do it...Ive learned from living down south that if your a good leader your excepted(i am,but just want more) but man, im just not much of a leader....im not good at talking to different people either,and ive been told i slouch alot and i dont know the ideal way to stand...and did i mention im not breath takingly beautiful? like the other girls....I know there personality makes them prettier but i dont know how to get THAT personality....any help please???

how do i act with people, certain crowds?tips somthing!!?

thx for all the help,answers givin....i know im low.

Answer 1

The overall goal is to just be more likable in general.  Things like being clean go a long way.  Practice good posture and try doing some pushups.  Exercise makes you happier and also will strengthen your muscles, making it easier to maintain good posture.  As for how to stand, I can't really tell you anything to do except watch what other people do and imitate that.  Talking to people is important.  If you're uncomfortable being outgoing, just fake it.  People like to talk about themselves, so try asking them some questions about who they are and what they like.  And if there's something unique about yourself, don't be afraid to show it.  People are attracted to people who aren't afraid to stand out.  In the end though, don't get caught up on whether or not you are in the "popular" crowd.  Find the people you're comfortable around and build your friendships with them.  Those relationships are way more important than being popular in the longterm.

Answer 2

Be yourself.  Never lie.  Never spread rumors or talk about others behind their backs. Be a friendly, good person who is respectful of others.  Smile!

Stand up straight with your shoulders back.  You can stand against a wall in your room and feel if you are slouching or not.

Have you thought of going to a salon or a department store and ask about a makeover or some beauty tips?  Always make sure you are clean and neat and have fresh breath and shampooed hair.  Have a manicure and make sure your clothes are neat and clean.

I know it is hard to talk to new people, but take a deep breath and try.  to say hello and ask how they are.  Be a good listener.  People like to talk about themselves.

Good luck, and you will be fine!

Answer 3

Smile at everyone. Don't be evil for fun. Hold your head high. Never be somebody you aren't.

Answer 4

You can get popular the good way or the bad way. Think about what you like and dislike, hobbies, entertainment. Find your niche. That is what will work for you. You will find the right people with the same interests, then you will be so called popular.

Remember, you can go with the flow for so long, you end up getting flushed. Then you are surrounded by .... get it?

Answer 5

You don't need to be popular to be happy. Popularity results in nothing but a lack of freedom, as you try constantly to follow the actions of your peers. Those that are popular don't always make the best choices either. You could wind up in lots of trouble.

Trust me, even if you did get the chance to spend time with this certain group of people, eventually you'd realize that you simply aren't being yourself. What is popularity anyway? It's when other people like and admire you. The only way to be admired is if you either convince every other person you know, that YOUR life style is right, or you follow what someone else feels is right. So, what fun is being popular if all you really are doing is following a crowd?

Honestly, all you'll find out is that popularity is filled with empty hopes, empty promises, lies, and betrayal. Is this really the life you want to live??

You don't need to become a clone to be happy. Allow people to like you for who you ARE! Not who you act like! If your peers don't approve, so what? SO WHAT?

Answer 6

you have to have confidence and if you don't know how just think of good thing you have. for the popular part I think you should join clubs that you like so there for you'll have a social clique.