How should i tell my male friends that i'm a bisexual?

Question

some of my girl friends knew it..but most of my guy friends don't know it yet..I'm afraid that some of them would hate or avoid me..i don't know how should i tell them..help please..

Answer 1

tell them personally in front of you,say that "guys, this is hard for me to deal with and hard for me to say it, but I'm bi..and i don't want to loose yall as my friends just because you just heard this from me, i really get along with yall and i trust yall all the way, and i hope youain'tt bummed...so are we still friends?"

that will work, somtin like that,...wow good luck

Answer 2

give him 3rd base.

Answer 3

Why do people feel the need to tell other people about their private stuff???? WHY what purpose does it serve??

Answer 4

Bring the subject up slowly and casually. Find out how they feel about homosexuality/bisexuality. If it seems that they are understanding and mature enough, go ahead and tell them. You'll also have your girl friends to back you up, if they start treating you differently. :)

But remember - only tell them when you are absolutely sure you are ready!

Good luck!

Answer 5

dont tell them because they might think you like em

Answer 6

Come out and say it, if they reject you then they were never a true friend to begin with.

Answer 7

well, you do not have to go up to them and say, "hey i am bisexual"  

you can just say that you are not keeping it a secret anymore. if someone asks you, tell them the truth, but dont shout it on the loud speaker or it will become a rumor.

Answer 8

just tell them....if they have a problem with it...you dont need them as friends...real friends are supportive of one another....

good luck!

Answer 9

Just tell them straight up.

if there your friends they will understand.

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Answer 10

I have been here before and i know how hard it is ! But they will love you regardless ! Your there friend ! Just tell them that you also have feelings for the same s*x ! And explain to them that you don't want them thinking any less of you ! I hope i helped

Good luck :)

Answer 11

If I were you I would not make an appointment to tell them - rather, I would just bring it up casually when the topic came around.  Ease into it... I wouldn't want to put too much emphasis on the subject.  Make it seem like it's casual and not a big deal.

Answer 12

oh dude i mean im not gey or bi and if a friend of mine would tell me that  i be like thats ur life and i totally support u , and as long u dont fallli in love with me its fgood lol!

Answer 13

double the action, how can it be bad

Answer 14

i think you should tell them, the ones that stay aroungd are your true friend

Answer 15

Dont do it!

Answer 16

dont know

Answer 17

a guy friend of mine tried to hit on me the other night, turns out he's bi....and i was a little flattered but i don't care really...if they're real friends they won't either....

Answer 18

if people will hate or avoid you because of it, that is how you figure out who your true friends are.  but if you do tell them, you can also mention how easy it is to get laid since you have double the prospects.  just be confident in who you are.....don't be ashamed or embarassed.  Bisexual folks rule!

Answer 19

don't tell him that, That way, you'll have both a boy and a girl friend.

Answer 20

Just the way you said that.  

Answer 21

Just be honest with them.  If they don't accept it then they were never your true friends.  Your true friends will be there with and for you!

Answer 22

Well, they're gonna find out eventually would they? Why not just tell them face to face what you really are, and if they accept you as a friend, you'll know who your real friends are.  

Answer 23

Stay in the closet. DONT ASK DONT TELL POLICY WORKS BEST

Answer 24

how long have you been friends with them? If its more than like 5 years than I'm sure they would support you. But if you haven't known them for a while, you might not be able to trust them.Just sit down with them and have a conversation.