How soon after someone gets married?

Question

is it ok to contact them or vice versa. I went overseas to be my friends maid-of-honour two months ago and I have not heard from her since. I know that after getting married people are busy putting their lives together but she had promised to send the wedding pics on a disc. I still have not heard from her. Should I give it more time or should I contact her?

Answer 1

give her a call, time goes so fast and life can get so busy and it may just have slipped her mind, she will probably be happy that you called and haven't forgotten her as well.

Answer 2

Two months is plenty of time for early hustle and bustle to die down. So give her a call. Don't start by asking about the pictures, just chat and see how things are going in general. She's your friend still, so just be friends.

Answer 3

Give her a call or write her.  You have given her a respectable amount of time. She shouldn't feel like you are intruding on her privacy.

Answer 4

Just call her or send her a quick email. It probably slipped her mind, or she may not have the photos back yet. Two months is plenty of time to let her get settled - she's still your friend and will certainly be happy to hear from you!

Answer 5

I think after 2 months she is self centered and rude. I would certainly call her.

Answer 6

Maybe she is too busy to send you the CD but you should call and check on her and see how she's settling in

Answer 7

oh my gosh! I would expect a call after the honeymoon!!! I would call just to check and make sure she is ok! I would be sort of upset if I hadn't heard anything from my friend in 2 months!!!

Answer 8

Call her just to check up and in the conversation ask her if she has gotten her pics back and if so you dying to see them.

Answer 9

Call her and ask her how things are going. I wouldn't just call her and say hey, I want the wedding pics, but if the conversation goes to the wedding, then ask. Don't blame her for being slow at sending them. If it was from a professional photographer, she might not even have the disc back yet. If not, I'm sure she's still playing catch up if she had to move, unpack, pack away wedding gifts, return them, write thanks you, work, etc. The first few months after a wedding can be pretty hectic!! (just when I thought after the wedding things would calm down.... wrong!!!)

Answer 10

It's a good idea to give her and her new husband space for their honeymoon. But I doubt that they are still on vacation two months later. They have to resume their normal lives eventually so don't feel bad about contacting her. If she doesn't answer her phone, you can just politely ask her to call you.

I don't think that she is avoiding you though (unless she never returns your call). She is probably busy. Maybe her and her new husband are making changes in their lives. But she should have sent you a thank you card for being her bridesmaid.

Answer 11

I would call her, Maybe something happened with family or soemthing. mail her a letter, something :D

Answer 12

Contact her. See how she is doing. You were obviously someone she cared about enough to be her maid-of-honour. She may be going through something and could use a friendly hello.

Answer 13

Give her a call to check on her. Don't ask about the pictures just yet. It will no doiubt take time to deal with all the business matters but definately call to touch bases with her.

Answer 14

I think I'd give them a week home after the honeymoon trip.  Then I think it would be reasonable to expect normal communication.

Answer 15

Doesn't your friend have email? Its never intrusive and you can also ask if there is a good time to call

Answer 16

I would call her, just to make sure she is ok. You never know she could have married a pyscho, and she didn't know until it was to late...

Answer 17

Yes you need to call her and ask her what's the problem with

the wedding pics.