How the h**l a parent can call their child a b!!tch, s**+t and that stuff?

Question

I really don't understand that. I see lots of question where like... 14,13 yos say that something something and he called me a useless S**t.

What the... :o Me and my mum would never swear at eachother like that! True, sometimes we say mean stuff and scream at eachother, but we would never say something like 'I hate you' or call eachother names. I usually just ignore the stuff that she says like I disrespect her, I'm ungratefull because I know she says that only because she's mad or just takes it out on me slightly after she had a small fight with her boyfriend :l

Answer 1

I can surely understand how. Sleep deprivation + toddler = grumpy as blazes mother. I have actually called my tot a few choice things, and felt dreadful afterwards. I'm just glad she was too young to remember! In my case, it was Pregnancy + Extra sleep deprivation + toddler + husband working until 8 or 9 pm (teaching sucks, especially at report writing time). I don't take pregnancy very well. No one is going to say I "glow"... I can't imagine behaving that badly under any lesser circumstances.

Answer 2

those parents have their kids for the baby bonus, if your in Australia at least. They dont care about their kids, they just get pregnant so they can get the few thousand dollars once the baby is born.

Answer 3

haha ii wish i had your mom.

mines a *****.

she calls me names ALL the time (b***h, w***e, s***k, stupid, worthless pieice of ****) .. she tells me she hates me and that she wants to get rid of me.

shes abusive too.

i hate her so much. like i actually do.

shell choke me, punch/slap me, pull my hair, throw me around, once she even pushed me down a small set of stairs

she threatens to kill me in my sleep alot too..

she takes EVERYTHING out on me, and then is as sweet as pie to everyone else.. including the cat.

and then the next day shell go on about how much she loves me

dont believe one word of that bullshit.

yeah i could go on forever about what a manipulative hypocrite she is, but i wont haha



yeah im 14.. this has been happening since i was oh.. 10? but its gotten worse since then.

shes part of the reason i tried to kill myself last year..

the reason i cut a few days ago

and the reason ive run away at least 8 times.

but whatever. as soon as i turn 16 im getting the h**l out of here and never speaking to her ever again.

haha anyways..

your mom sounds really great.

your really lucky :)

Answer 4

I was wondering the same thing. My parents never said that with me...and I could never do that to my own daughter...although her mother has called her that. (She's not in the picture right now...my daughter is 14 months old...) I don't know how someone could do that to their kid. Even when I told my parents that I got my ex pregnant when we were 14, they didn't even cuss. (But yeah...they WERE pretty pissed...)

Answer 5

Yeah one can say crazy things to the kids under pressure.  I am so happy you can understand what a slip-up can be.  It's not abuse, there are no excuses for parents nowadays they always have to be perfect.  It's a lot of pressure when people juggle their own jobs, the kids, the healthy cooking, paying the bills and trying to just keep their heads above. You are very mature and you have a good mum.  thumbs up.

Answer 6

My mum called me a "*****, stupid" and told me she "couldn't stand me"

i know she was angry, and would not have meant it, but i've never ever forgotten it.

Answer 7

Is not good they don't have the right to do that but they need professional help. hope some one talks to them and i recommend u to go to .:)VERY ANGRY OF COURSE!

Answer 8

When I was a pre-teen my mom use to tell me that I was retarded, I was useless and that I wasn't worth a darn, well guess what I am a Minister of the Gospel now with a Bible Degree and had spent the first fourteen years of my adult life as a Law Enforcement Officer in D.C.  So it don't matter what your parents say or anyone says it's more what you think of yourself that makes a difference.  You and God can do wonders with your life.  Yes it's wrong, yes it's mean and it's even abuse but don't let that stop you from being all you know you can be and be happy doing it.  God Bless.

Answer 9

parents are parents.. im 16 years old... n i live with my cousin i use to live with my parents but me n my parents had a bad relationship my mom was one of those that when she found out i had my first pop kiss n 8th grade (yea i was slow) she calleed me a s**t..eventualy it will effect you..i always thought was a place id never leave a gaurenteed place that i was safe....i dnt speak to my mom now... n i dnt plan to for a couple of more years irs been 8 months since i moved out n ill b 17 in a few months...such is life all i tell myself is im nt that kid she wanted me to b, i disapointed her n she disapointed me..were even..when ur angry..u speak the truth

Answer 10

Oh wow.....thats really bad.....Perhaps Famly Counsleing will do the trick:)