How to Brake Up with a nice guy?

Question

How would you break up with a nice guy??? I don't want to just walk up to him and yell, "IT'S OVER!" in his face. How do I break up with him nicely?

Answer 1

sit down and talk

explain how you

feel about him

and say its you not him

Answer 2

by saying that, "I think it's not really working between us." you should be straight to the point but not direct :D

Answer 3

Tell him his weeny is way too small, point at it and laugh in front of everyone. then push him down to the ground and walk away laughing.

Answer 4

Call him

Tell him It's not him, it's you.

Tell him you'd rather be friends.

Tell him you don't want to be in a relationshipt right now, and tell him you see him more as a brother than as a boyfriend.

Answer 5

Be honest with him. Just tell him that the relationship isn't what it used to be. You love him, but you feel that you can't give him your 100% and that he deserves someone who is willing to give him 100%. So it would be best if you go your separate ways and that he finds someone who is willing to give him their all..

all the best! :D

Answer 6

tell him that its not really working out for you and that you realized you dont need a relationship at this point in your life

Answer 7

You want a bad boy/thug type?

Answer 8

learn how to spell break in the context of what u are saying. Really, theres no nice way to break up, hes gonna feel hurt now matter what u do, so just be honest

Answer 9

If he's a nice guy, he'll probably not show the full extent of how much he's hurt.  But he'll likely be crushed, no matter what you do.  That's expected.  You can't stay with him just to avoid hurting his feelings.

Being honest but kind will help in the long term.  It will help to share that it really hurts you to break up with him (if you mean it), but you need to.  For the short term, hormones may drive him to think bad things about you, but ultimately, he'll remember you as compassionate and merciful.  You could even end up being the best of friends.

He'll get over you when he finds someone else.  That could be weeks, could be years.