How to Deal with Negativity!?

Question

well if there was someone that always says negative things about you and to you, how to you deal with it so it won't affect you???

Answer 1

I went thru this pretty much all my life. peoples in school & at home always talkin negative things about me. I learned to brush it off. Just know that no one is perfect & believe in yourself. Good Luck!

Answer 2

ignore the person and think that the person which is saying bad stuff to u is not perfectt...

nobody is perfect in this world.... remember tht.. u'll feel better

Answer 3

just ignore it, on the other hand, be positive, try to attract positive energy and vibes around you..read the book that i read, called The Secret by Rhonda Byrne..It will surely work good things for you.

Here is also a video that will give you an idea about it..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_b1GKGWJb...

Answer 4

This will happen as long as humans are on the Earth!

Remove yourself from the offender. Spend as little time as possible around such people.

Someone gave me 'permission' one time to 'just walk away'.

It is the most freeing experience when you do that!

One must also 'replace' people like that with an activity or other people who help you to feel good about yourself. (to counteract all the bad stuff)

Explore your interests. You may find that you have more than one or two. Try to include people in your life who enjoy those interests too!

Soon you will find yourself surrounded with positive people in positive places!

God Bless!

Answer 5

1st is to screen what that person is saying, is it the truth that you need to face, e.g. you need to improve yourself, like dieting or dressing up well. 2nd ask for second opinion, maybe the negative person's saying is right, or just insulting you. Look for an honest opinion or a true friend that will show you the right thing to do or how to correct yourself. For all you know, that negative person is the only one who's telling the truth, while all the others are talking behind your back. 3rd, if you prove the negative person is wrong, avoid that person. Because you don''t need someone who would pull you down. You need encouragement, and i can suggest a good book - the bible. start with psalms or proverbs. it says about the love of God, and you will be encouraged. you see, each one needs to be builded up, encourage one another.