How to Get them to Bud Out?

Question

My in-laws are constantly getting between my boyfriend and I. They don't like me because right now I'm unemployed, (just waiting for the 2nd interview) and because I'm trying to make my boyfriend independent. They like to tell him what to do and how to live his life.

At 21, he was still living at home, and after 4 years I convinced him to move into our own place. They hated it! Even though for the last 10 months they were bitching to him to move out or they'll throw him out, they still ***** about him moving out.

They say one thing, then yell at the other thing. They almost broke us up a couple days ago. We sorted it, thank god. But, they won't stop. He has tried to tell them to stop interferring, but they won't. They either yell at him badly, or say "End of discussion" and walk out.

I can't live like this anymore. What can we do to get them to stop interferring?

Answer 1

You say in laws but then you say bf!!!  Which is it??

You guys are TOO YOUNG!!!!  You both sound  very immature.  

Because you're both immature, his parents (I'm assuming), control him!!

That won't change in the next 2 months.   Maybe in 5 years.

Please, don't stay with him.   They don't like you, you don't like them.   Actually being serious about him and even marrying him will just be h**l for everyone.

Answer 2

I dont know any way possible to get them to stay out of his and ur bussines....cause thats what it is, your business.

I never heard this story before, i think its crazy......and how u want to live independently with him.....

sorry but they are weird....or they must have a reason for acting like that.....that you dont know about.

I mean, why? why would they act like that?