A friend of mine had asked me to be her maid of honor. The wedding won't be until summer of 2009, however, I'm not sure as to how to decline the offer without upsetting her. I just found out that I'm pregnant with my first child and the baby is due 2 months before her wedding. I'm not comfortable accepting such a big responsibility since I'm sure she will need my help with her special day this year. I really don't want to stress out with the wedding and trying to handle my pregnancy at the same time. Of course, the baby is more important to me because my husband and I have been trying for over a year. I tried explaining to her, but she simply told me that my husband could handle the baby for one day since the baby would be 2 months old by then. She and I are not that close to begin with. The only reason why she asked me to be her MOH is because she got into an argument with her bestfriend (the original MOH) so she demoted her friend.
So, what should I say to decline her offer gently without hurting her feeling? Please help. No rude comments please.
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