How to I become a nice person?

Question

Well... I feel like I've been bitchy lately... But I've been more serious lately and concentrating on my school work more. My voice is also alot more deep and serious then it was last year.

I guess I was average kindness last year but I think that people are starting to think I'm kinda bitchy. I sound a bit like a ***** sometimes.

And for some reason, I act like a ***** at times. I feel like I have all this mental energy and I feel like being annoying and weird. And that leads to my bitchiness.

Please, no "think about what you say before you say it" or any c**p like that.

Sorry real pissed right now. I wanna be a really kind person. Not just for others to say, your nice, but to TRULY be nice. Like jumping infront of a car to save a cat nice.

Answer 1

Treat people the way you would want them to treat you.The way to do this is by actually being nice, rather than trying to seem nice. Don't do nice things for people, be a nice person.

Answer 2

you can start by trying to think how other people feel like,  and putting yourself second and others first

Answer 3

you can't suddenly change. its natural. once you set your first impression that's it.

Answer 4

What are you so pissed about?  Maybe you need to explore that more, so you'll know why you want to be bitchy.  Maybe you need to figure out why you enjoy being bitchy, too.

You can direct your mental energy into something more positive, like something creative.  You don't have to be super-nice and totally change your personality, but just caring about people and listening to them can make you seem nicer.

Figure out where some of your anger is coming from, then you can work on it.  Find things that make you happy.  Make changes slowly.  If you try to change too fast, it will make you nuts.