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Long story short my family is extremely dependent and attention seeking. My wife tries very, very hard to appease them but its never enough. They call all the time saying how terrible my wife is for hating them so much and how horrible I am for abandoning them. Standing up to them does no good even though I have on several occasions. Setting boundaries does not good - luckily they live 2 hours away. They have treated me badly my whole life now they are doing it to my wife - there is NO reason for it besides that they wanted me with them forever and I an sane and wanted my own life. My wife is wonderful in every way. My mom is 66 and my 2 sisters of 40 and 41 have never lived alone or away from her. They enable her behavior and are turning into her. They leave horrible profane messages and email the whole time attacking me and my wife.Here's where I come in. I have always been strong but it is starting to take its toll on me. I dislike them immensely but cant escape. If I change my number they get it, the same as email and the messages start again. They are chipping away at my sanity and I fear it may start effecting my marriage. I literally get sick when i see a message from them. They constantly use guilt as a way to drive me crazy. My sisters say my mom is old and I will be sorry one day etc... They keep saying my wife hates them and although she has never said so if I were here i would. This is effecting my physical and mental health. Can anyone offer any suggestions to help who have been in a like situation? Even if not any advice will help. Thanks for your time.
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