How to always be the nice guy and not the jerk?

Question

I think i do okay at this and I really want to be the nice guy. I dont want to get in the habbits of being cocky, annoying, mean and all cause thats no good.

How can I or what are some ways of reminding myself of how to be the opposite of a jerk.

I also find it kind of hard because there are alot of jerks and alot of bad everywhere, but i dont want to be part of that. I want to stand out as a good person not a bad one.

Thanks!

Answer 1

Insult yourself every once in a while. that way, even when you're being a jerk, people will think you're being funny. Also, this promotes humility.

Answer 2

You just answered your own question. You don't want to be a jerk and one way is to put yourself in someone elses shoes. You treat people the way you would want to be treated, that simple.