How to approach to dance in a night club?

Question

To be frank...i am not a gr8 dancer...i can dance thou at avg level.....

soo hw to approach dance floor to dance with a girl....i just stand outside and then i feel i cant dance or i think i will b rejected soo i dont dance and i leave.....i do make eye contact with girls and they even do.... (im good looking...just for info).

so after i make eye contact like can I say hii or something and then go near them to dance...can i talk to them while dancing....i mean music will be soo loud..soo... hw u guys doo....for girls wht do u think if some one does like this.....i need help...i ma a beginner for night clubs

Answer 1

Definitely ask the girl if she would like to dance.  There's nothing worse than a guy who comes up from behind and tries to grind on you without asking.  

If you're worried, one thing you can do is be a little goofy.  My friend likes to do "the sprinkler" or "the shopping cart."  It makes me laugh and it's a lot of fun.  Use this technique sparingly, you don't want to come across as weird.

Answer 2

why are you making this so complicated? Simply go up to her and say "Want to dance?", and if its loud, motion to the dance floor and signal "come on!". Believe me, I am a girl, and I wish guys would ask me to dance. Usually the ones who ask me are the older men!!! Im talking 50 year olds plus!!!! They arent shy. Why should you be???