How to avoid fat friends that I'm embarrassed by

Question

this girl named madison and taylor who are my friends but they embarrasse me because there fat and when they hang with me, i get ridiculed. people call them fatison and tubler. they're so disgusting! they always try to eat my food when we go out, they always make pigs of themselves, and they don't understand the difference between how to act in public and when you're with your friends in private. they're so repulsive, but we've been friends for so long and i don't know what to do, i don't want to break off our friendship, but i want to know how to avoid them effectively if i see them in public (ex: a carnival that is happening tonight that they will be at).

Answer 1

tell them ur gonna go run..... and juz wear a beard and a mustache they will never notice u  

Answer 2

Stop calling them.

Answer 3

Kill yourself.

Answer 4

Accept your friends however they are. You are just a rude person who needs to stop thinking superficially. Grow up.  

Answer 5

You could just stay home where you won't have to worry about being embarrassed.  I actually think they do you a favor by even claiming you.  

Answer 6

Jerk. : ( If they're really your friends, except them for who they are no matter what.

Answer 7

You don't deserve to have ANY friends!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

wow... horrible person

Answer 9

You are just a nasty person who deserves to be alone. Feel lucky you have any friends at all.

Answer 10

That is so wrong!  If youre that embarassed by them then u shouldn't be friends with them.  If they knew that u were embarrassed by them because of their weight, I am sure they wouldn't want to be friends with you.

Answer 11

Do them a favor and stop talking to them all together.  They're better off without you, you are a crappy friend to talk about them that way.

Answer 12

Let's be honest, they are not your friends if you smile with them in private and run from them in public.  Friends are friends whether at home or in the street.

Answer 13

I think you should tell them EXACTLY what you told us.  Make sure to use the words "disgusting" and "repulsive" as you did here.  Then they can decide for themselves if you are worth having as a friend.

Answer 14

Pagan Princess is right you dont deserve friends most of my friends are idiots and people say there idiots i always defend them, they are ok with people making fun of them but im not, a friend is someone you can count on and you are no friends to those girls

my friends say stupid **** all the time i laugh at them but never call them names or make fun of them others do i stand up for them because they are my friends i can count on them they can count on me

Answer 15

If people could see a person for who they really are, I think I would be more repulsed to be seen with you.

And honestly, I would not care to be bothered by people who ridicule me because I associate with people who aren't good looking.

Answer 16

There must be some reason why these 2 "friends" have taken pity on you and continued to hang around. Tell them what you told us and you won't have to worry about avoiding them.

Answer 17

This is the rudest thing I ever heard. What kinda person would let other peoples opinion alter their friendship with other people. judging how immature this sounds I guess your in middle school or high school. Either grow some guts and stand by your friends no matter what or dont be their friend at all.

Answer 18

tell it to them straight.  Let them know how you feel.  Im sure they will understand.

Answer 19

Rob i hope some one beats the living c**p out of you for being the obvious two faced jerk that you are.You don't deserve any friends,like the old saying if you want a friend first be a friend.....

Answer 20

I think you do want to end your relationship with these girls.  What I am wondering is, just how fat are these girls?  You're acting as if they should be in the circus the way you ridicule them.  I just think you are a shallow person and that you don't really deserve these friends, or any friends, for that matter.

I think the fastest way to end your problem is to tell your friends exactly how you feel...you won't have to worry about ever having to spend time with them again.

Answer 21

You need to decide what you actually want in a friend.  If it is someone to share your thoughts with and enjoy each others company then that is great.  You must not be embarassed by your friends - if you are then you are not their friends - you are using them for your own personal gain - whatever that maybe.