How to avoid reaching o****m too fast at my first time?

Question

i am a 19 year old virgin :( and i've been wanting to have my very first intercourse with my girl but i am too worried about not satisfying her. what can i do to not reach climax in a way too fast and end up disappointing my girl?

Answer 1

Jerk off an hour before you go there.....

Answer 2

Plenty of foreplay for her possibly even get her off before you even start. You could also m********e prior to your date so that you will be less likely to come too early.  

Answer 3

U wont... acctually most girls get turned on when u *** or orgasam rite away and it feels good to the guy that they can do it that quick.. and if u mean u cumming to fast ... she wont care... it means she made u happy!!   rite before u *** just ask her where she wants it!!  

Answer 4

Before the two of you get together, m********e.  That will help slow down your next o****m.  However, understand that most guys don't last very long for their first time.

However, rather than worry about climaxing too fast and not satisfying her, don't get overly greedy- prolong foreplay, make sure that she is excited and if she hasn't already climaxed, that she is very close to it before the two of you have intercourse.  If you do come quickly, remember that you will likely have another erection pretty quickly, and you can pay a lot of attention to her while that's happening.

the most important part of making love is between your ears and also in communicating with each other.  If you aren't sure she is having a good time, ask her if you are pleasing her.  If she gets embarrassed, tell her that you want  to know what really pleases her the most, so that she can have the best experience possible.

Answer 5

Ignore everyone who says whack off at home first

Your girl will really love it if your not embarrassed and allow her to play with you before you try to make love with her for real, even if you splash on her hand

It's best if you bring her to o****m through foreplay prior to full intercourse, that gets her relaxed and really turned on, and ready for you, meaning it will be easier for you to enter her because she's good and wet and really wanting you, when she's that ready, you won't have to worry about hurting her either

By that time you will be well recovered from your earlier games and able to go for a good long time

If you and your girl allow yourselves plenty of time for your lovemaking, and are not going to be disturbed or rushed, you can make love a second or third time and each time will get better and better

So try to find somewhere you will both be comfortable, have some wine between your lovemaking, take a shower or bath together, have a sleep for a while even, then start again

That's much more romantic and memorable than it all being over in 5 minutes.  But don't worry if that happens, because you will get better

And don't forget to use condoms

: )

Answer 6

i usually find nocking 1 out b 4 you go really helps or jus get her to suck u off first then smash the granny out of her hope this helps

Answer 7

The first time for both of you is very special.  I will tell you my first time was special but not very good.  My advice would be to be sure you are both comfortable with no chance of interruptions (motel room - cabin etc).  Her first time will cause her some discomfort so you need to try and make her have an o****m first.  That can be done by using some of the suggestions found in books but usually lots of touching,  Don't go too fast.  Don't go right for the crotch.  Trace your fingers down slowly avoid the nipples and C**t to start with.  brush the hair between her legs but don't dive in.  Same with her b*****s, kiss around them and don't go right for the nipples.  there may be some blood so you could have a red towel handy or some maxi pads.  have fun but use safe s*x.  Make it as romantic as possible, flowers, gift, toast with wine, music.

Answer 8

There's probably not much you can do about it though masturbation before hand may help. Just because you come quickly though doesn't mean she won't be satisfied. If she knows you're a virgin she will probably be expecting it. You can just go again soon afterwards, and/or work on other ways to satisfy her. Only a stupid girl would get upset if a guy came really fast the first time and she didn't feel satisfied. So don't stress.

Harriet

Answer 9

I think the only way is to m********e an hour or so before if you can.

Answer 10

Ok well the answer is fairly simple. I am pretty sure you have masturbated before. If it takes a long time to reach your climax then,then that is simply your answer of  your performance.  

Answer 11

Ok dont m********e before hand, the longer you save up your load the more she will be impressed when anihilate her with a massive *** shot.

Simply change positions alot and take it slowly, try not to think about not cumming to quickly.

Answer 12

It is some time since I lost mine but i can tell you just as the other girls are telling you we expect it just relax take your time with foreplay and she will be happy play safe :-)x x x

then you can do it again oh and again and again and still have a w**k over it in the morning its great being young so enjoy don't worry

Answer 13

I know alot of people will say "m********e before" but I'm totally against that... The first ejaculation is always the best so why would you waste it? If you come too fast then so be it! You can always come again and again until she is happy.. Eat lots of protein beforehand.. don't m********e for a few days before intercourse and have the best o****m you ever had.. whatever you do, don't waste it!! Remember, your pleasure is just as important as hers.. She won't be disappointed if you are sincere.

Answer 14

what generally happens is that regardless of whatever you do you will c-m quick but your so excited that your p***s is ready to go again in two minutes flat and you should be able to make the second time last longer and so satisfy your partner just laugh the first time off as she's excited you so much you couldn't help it and she should take that as a compliment

Answer 15

go slow..

and if you feel yourself about 2cum..just stop..

ders a ting u can do where you kinda hold da tip of yo thingy and kinda squeeze down on it abit to stop you cumin..

just stop,.,compose yoself den go again!

den obv when your ready 2 ***..release!

o jus go slow..

Answer 16

If you're nineteen, you'll be able to do it again fairly soon.  So don't worry too much about the first time, as there's the second and third and fourth and - you get it.