How to be a better person ???

Question

I m rude and hot tempered, not understanding at all, uncaring and insecured bout losing friends...... what will make me get rid of all these ? is there any way ?? HELP me OUt.....i feel so bad n suffocated......

Answer 1

Think before you speak and remind yourself how rude you can be an are not going to be any more  

Answer 2

Chill out a bit, relax.

Go to a charity shop and help them out, either donate money or ask if you can help, but not for money. This will make others believe you are caring and if they believe it, why not you as well.

Don't worry about losing your friends, you won't lose them unless you push them away.

If you get angry count to 10 slowly and think happy thoughts, don't yell out.

Answer 3

Just stop and think before you react irrationally, try holding your breath and counting to ten. And most of all, follow the Golden Rule:

Treat others the way you want to be treated.  

Answer 4

If you are all that then, Don't do that.

Answer 5

You know, all you have to do is to think if what you are doing is right.

If ever you can't decide it by yourself, ask someone you are closest to. Don't ever ask online because we don't have a single idea what you're true attitude shows to people you know. Just ask them what you are doing and ask them to help you become a better person. Also, DON'T ever forget to ask for God's help and always pray. If ever they will discourage you for example telling you that there would be no other chance left for you to change well, then, DO NOT ever get discouraged or dissappointed because you still have a chance.....

As long as you are living, there is still hope.....

So,....Don't worry..........

P.S. I will be here to cheer you up so live Happy!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 6

The way to become a better person is to stop endeavouring to become one. Do what you feel like and nature will do the rest. Believe me, its my experience,  the topmost thing which drives away friends is to fear about driving them away. Be yourself and even if you may lose other things....rest assured you will have always have someone who will understand you and with whom you can be just yourself.