How to be a fun girl?

Question

How can I be more spontaneous and open minded? I take most things too seriously. I want to change. I want to be more fun and spirited especially for someone my age. I want to be a girl that's fun to hangout with and gets alone with everyone including high schools guys well. How can I be more lovable?

Answer 1

Well, we're all individuals, so definitely don't try to be someone else first of all. Just try and relax and have fun. Be who you are.

Answer 2

Try not to think so much... ignore your common sense like everyone else seems to and just rush in without a second thought...

Answer 3

First of all, learn to smile a lot and say hello to as many people you can that look at least half-way friendly.

Second, get involved with some activities that you really enjoy and look forward to--that could be sports, or choir, or any clubs, any form of recreation (like skating, dances, boarding, skiing, biking, etc.) and find a group of young people with whom to participate.  One of the easiest way to become more spontaneous and fun-loving is to become gung-ho about one or more recreational activity.  Everyone is excited and having a great time, and all you have to do is join in.  

Once you are included in this group, people will ask you to come to other things, like fun parties, and learn to say "Sure, that sounds great!!"  Just use your head so you don't get into the wrong crowd or the wrong activities.  You want to be involved  with healthy, fun-loving people, who can also be serious when they need to be.

Answer 4

I'm afraid you're stuck being yourself.  Anything else will come across as forced and fake, and it won't make you happy in the end.

Not to say you can't have fun.  Try going out more, and participate in new activities.  You never know when you'll find something you like.