How to be a good kisser?

Question

hey so i know i'm prob gonna get called a nerd 4 this but idc.

i've never kissed a girl because every girl i've ever been with just hasn't seemed worth it. but right now i'm with this one girl who's amazing and i'm 100% sure i wanna kiss her since she's so special.

tips? pointers? horror stories on the subject? what not to do?

thanks =]

Answer 1

Practice on the back of your hand...Thats how we all learn

Answer 2

First thing you do is wait until you're older.

Then, you wait until you're older.

After that you wait until you're older.

Then once you're married, go crazy.

Answer 3

do it at the right time

not too fast not too slow

if you go too fast the girl will think you are a perv

too slow she'll think yerr' backin' out on her

first things first

lips firm not soggy

as a girl it is extremely sick to kiss a man with gross lips

check your breath

bring breath mints or mouthwash

the rest is up to you

good luck!

Answer 4

Just make sure you treat her lips gently and not like a pie-eating contest (some guys never learn...)

Answer 5

practice anyone kno mine

Answer 6

one mistake guys make when kissing is they go to fast!

a tip is to make sure your breath is minty fresh. Its not as hard as it seems trust me! just slitly tilt your head to one side if you see she going one side go the other so u dont bang heads then just close your eyes and KISS but as soon as the kiss is over open your eyes :) :)

hope this helps :)  

Answer 7

I'd say that to be a good kisser is not that big of a deal.. you'll know what to do when the time arrives trust me..

Answer 8

first of all---there all worth more than you know right now obveously, every girl you"ll like will have there own special quality and features---just kiss her and grow up!  They expect you too, she will let you know if she wants more. and some will teach you how. Don"t be shy you nerdy little guy.

Answer 9

haha i remember that feeling :)

be soft and gentle  

Answer 10

keep your lips closed and relaxed. let her lead.

DON'T SLOBBER!

Answer 11

Don't act like your trying to catch a fly in her mouth.

Just go for it.

Answer 12

It's a delicate balance. You want enough pressure that it's not like a kiss on the cheek, but you don't want to suck her face off. With your lips slightly parted, kiss your hand. Pretend you're sucking a drop of chocolate off or something. That's probably the perfect amount of pressure for a first kiss.

Another tip. Keep you're eyes closed. Keep them open gazing into her eyes until the last second, but close them when your lips touch. It lets your other senses come into play and the kiss will be that much more enjoyable. Also, don't just lean over and kiss her. Lightly hold her in your arms, body contact will make it more pleasurable. Do this even if you don't intend to take it further. If you decide to use tongue, don't shove it in her mouth. Just gently probe her lips until her mouth opens, then [still gently] swirl your tongue around hers. Keep it a taste, not a meal.

Most importantly, don't overthink it! It's crazy, but it really does come natural. Have fun!!

Answer 13

how old are you? first. but uh, yeh like i told my lil bro. its your first time.your gunna be nervos and when it happens your not even gunna relize it. your toes , might qlinch, but you go with the flow and it seems even weirder the second time. i dont know why. but it gets better. and better and better.dont hold back in the kiss. it just might keep her lil man..

Answer 14

WHATEVER you do, do NOT jam your tongue in her mouth.  So many guys think women like that and we HATE that.  It totally ruined my first kiss.  BIG pointer------most girls do not like an aggressive tongue filled kiss.  We like a gentle no tongue kiss at first.  Keep doing that and if that goes well, just try a LITTLE BIT of tongue. And be sure your breath is fresh.  Caressing the back of the neck very lightly never hurt anything either!

Answer 15

kiss really slowly. if you already know she would like a kiss, you can just do it. kiss slow.

if you never talked to her about kissing, and youre not sure what she would think, you should ask her, so that way you dont get rejected. rejection when youre going in for a kiss is wayyyyy more embarrasing then when youre talking about it.

Answer 16

eh, well they say practice makes perfect, but that isn't really an option here. there isn't really much to it just lean in and give her a peck lol

Answer 17

nerd. you obvsiously havent won enough gold medals in your time.

Answer 18

Not a nerd at all. Just remember everyone had to do it the first time too. Be gentle and definitly don't cram your tongue down her throat. My fav style of kissing is to kiss/suck gently on the lips, one at at time.  

Answer 19

I was the same until the end of last year but its not as scary as people think. All you have to do is close your eyes (make sure u get some tongue in there) once you kiss more you will get better. You cant really read on how to kiss.

Answer 20

1.Be kissable. Use lip balm or vaseline, especially if your lips tend to get dry and chapped. Soft lips are simply more inviting. Most importantly, nobody wants to kiss someone with bad breath, so carry some breath mints or gum with you, especially if you’re going out on a date. Breath mints are preferable, because you can use them in a pinch and not have to worry about getting rid of them. Be sure to stay hydrated, because a dry mouth is more likely to have bad breath. If you're going to a movie where candy a treats are necessary, bring an extra pack of gum. Drink water; other drinks (especially sweet ones) can leave an aftertaste that'll affect your breath, and some drinks (like milk) will linger in a bad way. Also, don't drink anything colored that might leave a ring around your mouth.

2.Test the waters. Pay attention to signals that the other person is into you and is ready for a kiss. Do they brush up against you or frequently enter your personal space with playful, innocent touches? Has the subject of kissing come up in conversation? If you haven’t noticed any of these signals, but the person does seem “into you,” try discreetly and innocently breaking the touch barrier (guys will generally be very receptive to this, many girls might not). The key is to be subtle and to watch the other person’s reaction.

Offer a mint, only after you've just had one. This can let the other person know what's on your mind, unless you offer them mints all the time.

Glance at his or her lips. Don't stare.

3.Wait for the right moment. There’s usually no hurry for a kiss, especially a first kiss with someone, so be patient and wait until the mood is right. Some good times are at a romantic movie after or during an on screen kiss, walking in the moonlight, or during a particularly intimate conversation. Wait until the two of you are alone so that the other person will feel more comfortable and so that nobody will see if your attempt to kiss is rejected. Many girls (and guys) don't want to be asked: they prefer that you be confident enough to take a risk and just go for it. One way to do so is to stop whatever you’re doing and silently look into the person’s eyes for a moment or two. Touch their face, then gently pull him/her toward you for a kiss. If the person pulls away or hesitates at any time, he or she is not ready for a kiss. If this happens, tell them that you want to give them a hug and go for that.

4.Approach for the kiss. Approach slowly and smoothly. Depending on your starting position you may need only to turn your head, or you may need to lean in a bit. You may want to use your hands to gently urge your partner’s body or head into position—you just want to guide his or her movement a little, you don’t want to forcibly move any part of his or her body or hold your partner in an uncomfortable position—but in general you just want to position yourself correctly and let your partner meet you. As you near your partner’s lips, maintain eye contact. You may want to close your eyes after your lips meet to heighten the sensuality of the kiss (and to avoid staring at the pores on his or her face).

5.Kiss gently. There are many kinds of kisses, from quick pecks to sweet, passionate kisses. There’s a time and place for all of these, but your first kiss with someone should be gentle and romantic. Don’t press your mouth onto your partner’s--just let your lips meet--and don’t try to push your tongue into his or her mouth. When your lips meet, pucker them and give a kiss, then smile and pull away a little, keeping your head close to your partner’s. If your partner moves to kiss you back or seems to like it and doesn’t pull away, go in for another kiss, this one a little firmer and longer. Put your hands on their face or around their shoulders.

6.Make the kiss the reason for the kiss. Some people seem to treat kisses as nothing more than a prelude to something else, and will try to quickly move into French kissing or start putting their hands in inappropriate places. Good kissers concentrate on the kiss, and they kiss, at least seemingly, expecting nothing more. Enjoy the experience, and don’t move too fast. Live in the moment. You will not kiss as well if your mind is somewhere else. For example, when kissing, try to avoid thoughts like "What is he/she thinking about?", "Do I look good tonight?", or anything else. Don't be too self-conscious, or have ANY thoughts outside the kiss if you can help it. Instead, concentrate on the way the other person's lips feel against yours.

Answer 21

How old are you?

Practice on the palm of your hand... get the suction down... it'll happen... don't think about it to much

Answer 22

*Keep your lips a little firm- not stiff.

*Don't go RIGHT for the tongue- Lip kiss a few times and then open your mouth- she'll do the same.

*Control your saliva- the kiss should be moist, not slobbery. (Briefly pull back every now and again to reduce saliva and allow her to catch her breath- don't smother....lol)

*Don't create a vaccume with your mouth for too long or apply too much pressure.  If her head is moving further and further back, ease up a little.

*Kissing is like tag- You kiss her a little in your style, then let her kiss you a little in her style.  Then you'll both find out what you like about eachother's kisses.

*Don't worry about horror stories...unless you both have braces, there's nothing to sweat over.  If you both DO have braces, just don't knock your teeth together...lol.  Good Luck Dear.

Answer 23

try putting your whole mouth around her chin first.... then suck and move upwards like a vaccuum cleaner

Answer 24

awwh

actually i do believe you sound quiet sweet =]

kind of like Robbie Hart sweet[Wedding Singer]

uhm, this is a cute and special way to start

lightly peck her on her cheek, and look her in her eyes, gently rub the side of her face and slowly lean in for a kiss, on the lips of course =]

and i'm sure your not wanting to go all porno, so have your mouth slightly open, and slide your lips over hers, and kind of cup her face in your hands =]

i hope this helps =]

Answer 25

First make sure she want to kiss you, and make sure your breath smells good, use gum, mints, etc. Then you let nature take it course, try not to be too sloppy, don't spit in her mouth...gross. And be a gentleman about it. Relax and enjoy

Answer 26

Lolz my friend once told me that kissing is easy .

1)stick ur tounge into her mouth

2)suck all her saliva out

LOL

I think that u shud juz watch the movies to find out~

Answer 27

aww, thats cute, i guess theres no pointer, it'll come naturally when ur closed to her

Answer 28

kiss her softly and passionately softly but firmly holding her close it will leave her speechless  

Answer 29

Just be slow and gentle. Only have your lips open a tiny bit, and they'll just move with hers, it's normally quite natural. Try not to concentrate too hard though, just let it happen. If you don use your tongue, just remember not to shove it down her throat, just small little movements with hers.

You'll be fine anyway even if you just remember slow and gentle :)

Answer 30

"every girl ive been with just hasnt seemed worth it" ive heard that excuse many times.

and make sure your lips are touching before you stick your tongue out, start slow, with your hands touch her to add xtra sensation, and dont stop kissing at the beggining

o and do not suck on her tongue