How to be a little more supportive?

Question

My boyfriend is doing big things now I guess you could say and well I'm not jealous but I am at the same time.I don't know..It's just blaaaah... ok... Well he's a dancer for one which draws A LOT of attention and he just got another job at a place I really really did not want him too b/c of how everyone takes to him. I am really really happy for him - don't get me wrong but I get pissed because its kind of like we don't have time anymore for "us." I want him to know that I LOVE HIM and I support him. Like he's doing good but I feel like we are growing more apart in his time of shinning I guess you would call it. How can I let him know that I'm really happy for him w/o making it seem like I want us to break up?

Answer 1

So what....is he a Chippendale dancer?   I don't think I would like my man doing that.

Good luck!

Answer 2

if you don't get the chance to talk to him in person about the whole situation , write him little notes and stuck it in his gym bag~~

you should be able to tell him exactly what u said on yahoo! tell him that

"while i'm extremely happy for your success and very very proud of you for going after your dreams, i can't help but feel a little bit lonely lately... is it possible to arrange some "us time" one evening per week? i need to get reconnected with my baby!"

see what he suggests and calmly discuss... don't freak out... you guys should be able to communicate in order to maintain your relationship.

Answer 3

Hi

talk to him maybe if yuo still like him

tell him he is neglecting you and dance a little too much

a commited couple should sacrifice for each other