How to be aggressive?

Question

I am a pretty shy person and I have trouble telling people how and feel, or what I want. How can I become more aggressive?

Answer 1

For real, dont even think of the consequences, just say and do as you feel. If your doing something wrong sumone will let u kno.

Answer 2

as you get older u would learn how to...

Answer 3

Think angry thoughts.. GET ANGRY RAAAAAAWWWWRRRRR

and thats about it ^^

Answer 4

I used to be the same, just listen to Metal (music.) That usually gets me "pumped," but watch out, you might get into fights too, lol that's what I did =)

Answer 5

There are self-assertiveness programs and courses available for the taciturn. I attended one. I YELLED at  the instructor and received an A+.

Answer 6

What i do is:

Think of all the things people have done in my life to make me angry

Then it makes me feel like i want to get back at them for making me mad

And it builds up my aggression so i just think of bad things people have done to me

Like before:

I got angry when i got blamed for something i didn't do

So i wanted to get back at that person who really did do it.

Hope this helps

Answer 7

I think you should take the time to work on your on confidence.

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Answer 8

Aggressive probably would not be the right word, but assertive.  If you don't want to, then say so.  If your boundaries are crossed, express it.  You don't have to be outrageous about it, or loud.  All you do is respect you own boundaries and wishes.  Let go of what people think.  People will think whatever they want.  You are not responsible for their behavior, and you simply don't have to put up with it. It will take courage, but you will feel better about yourself in the long run.