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How to be more popular...?

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I'm already popular but I am extremely shy. I talk to people plenty, but I always run out of things to say or talk about. At the end of a party I usually feel left out because I barely talk to anyone. If you have any tips at all please please post them. Thanks.

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invite people to your house for a party
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You just have to be more outgoing. I have the SAME EXACT problem as you.... except the fact that im not that popular.... if you run out of things to say... just admit it and talk about someting completely random and funny.
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Say and talk about the first thing on your mind.... let the conversation run, dont try to control it. Girls are VERY bad at that, Also,... when asked a question, talk, dont hold anything back, and also leave it open for a response,... if you do those thigns you will have plenty of quality talks,a nd you wont have to worry about running out of things to say.
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Just be yourself. Say the things that are on you mind without offending anyone of course and don't do it to be popular do it because you enjoy being yourself.

Good luck.

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why do you want to be so popular?

just find a friend you can be super close to and take her to the parties with you.
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Just remember people love to hear themselves talk. Just ask questions about what they are already talking about they will hold the conversation if you just act interested. Also being shy is not that bad of a thing because you get to hear how stupid everyone else is. Take that and build your confidence from it. Seriously even if you don't have anything to say about what they are talking about you can always be like why is that? What made them decide to do that? Have you ever wondered why good looking people go for ugly people, it is just because they come across confident.
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talk to a lot of people and be very open to them. give or get phone numbers call hang out with them have partys then meet there friends and make friends with them then make friends with there friends and so on
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Whatever comes to mind is the best thing to say to someone when the conversation gets a bit awkward!  Trust me, I am about to change schools and I am going into the seventh grade, making me twelve, but I am really excited not to know anyone because I can really be me!

I can say whatever I want to, do whatever I want to, and hang with whoever I want to!

Just be you (unless you is a freaky dork- i doubt it) and be spontanious, fabulous, and wonderous!

I LIKE TO RYHME!  MY MOTTO IS:  Live Laugh Love Food Fashion Fun!  Isn't it catchy?
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If you're already popular then, wutz the problem????

Just talk about things you find intersting and the words will just come to you.

And stop worrying, its so unhealthy
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just be your self and talk to people
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step out of your comfort zone, but really, the best way to become popular, is to not focus on it. this year i was the popular girl at my school and i tried to change the meaning of "popular" by being nice and a leader.
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Be yourself..! just always express what you feel.. try to remember all the things and stuff that interest you so that you can share it to your friends .. you can even try new things and activities thats suits you.. in that way you wont run out of things to say when your in crowd.. but just always remember.. never please everyone..! ok? good luck
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popularity has nothing to do with running out of things to say. i'm not really sure how to help. i consider myself popular; i have tons of friends, i get along with everyone, and i always have something to say. i've never had a problem like that before...look up news every morning or something and talk to people about celebrities or something. that is always a good topic. try to open yourself to other conversations; maybe you have nothing to say but other people do.
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How about you stop concentrating on what people think of you and spend ur time trying to actually be a better person, lifes to short to worry about being popular, if ur shy dont search for popularity, aim to be more confident, theres a big difference.
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you start your question by saying "I'm already popular" cant u live with that? there are many people, such as myself, who are not popular at all and are mistreated! so be happy with the friends and your so called popularity
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jus be you at the end of the day if people dont like ya thn you should tell them to fack off.
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you dont always have to be the center of attention listen to other people youl think of something
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ASk questions. calm down, relax and speak about recent movies you have seen and what you did over the summer or the most recnt break (it could even be the weekend). Go with friends who keep you talking, and contiune other people's conversation. Feel free and speak from the soul!!
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just talk to others. they probably want to talk also.
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If your already popular then don'tt worry about it. Its obvious that people already like you so dont puch it. Just gain some confidence to talk to people and be friendly.
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Take up a hobby that would require you to not be shy. For example, try out for a school play or anything that would make you get in front of people and get used to it. Hope this helps.
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Eh, im the same way. I am incrdibally shy. And i cant think of anything to say to new people. Heres what you do. Go do something with new people and your friends. Like take your friends and tell them to bring like 2 friends and hang out with them. You go do something. That will cause an experience and give you things to talk about and youll eventually be more comfortable. Try it!! Its what ive noticed in the last year or so. Hope it helps.
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haha lol same here

but i dont feel left out
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Whenever, I run out of things to say, I just try to touch my nose with my tongue. That always get people talking and presto I'm popular again.
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why do you care?

if people don't like you because your shy then you probably don't want to be friends with them anyways.
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i dont know! i am not popular do i dont know how 2 help u!
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I hate being populat, it's more fun being the loser then getting popular kids to throw stuff at you when you make fun of them.
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Be yourself.
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Be your self
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watch this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ndiRRjCyV...
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yup relax. don't try to hard. and you don't have to talk all the time.

just hang out with other people and talk with them, let them pick topics.

chill and enjoy your time.
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