How to be more ruthless?

Question

people see me as a "nice guy" and a very sensitive guy. Im to nice to people and they treat me like **** to be honest. Im sick of it, i want to become more ruthless with these people, thats the only way they will take me seriously, instead of laughing at everything i say, its come to the point where i feel stupid if i say anything, because they always take it as a joke. Any tips, advice, is very appreciated.

Answer 1

Theres no need to get more ruthless.                                 Get a new job  ,    Stay to your self a bit more,                       Then SLOWLY make new friends.       Dont try to prove yourself,        and stay away from drugs and drug users!! OH stay away from ho's too.                                                                           thats what helped me      .           hope i helped.

Answer 2

This is hard to answer, but first off, it's a nice thing that your sweet. Girls really admire and look for that in a guy, but I see your point about the guys treating you badly for it.

You shouldn't try and change the way you are too much for these people, but before even opening your mouth to say something ask yourself: WHO IS MY AUDIENCE?

Some things are said better with diffrent crowds. For example, I would take about my nail polish with a group of cheerleaders but not with the boys soccer team. When you're talking to these guys, always think ahead before you say something, and ask yourself if it is "too nice" to be said in front of them.

Also, keep in mind that as some of these guys laugh at everything you say, doesn't mean that's what they really think about it. Guys will do things to fit in. Some of the people in that group probably agree with what you are saying, and some of them may even be more sensitive then you, but they don't want to be mocked, so they keep their mouths shut. They probably think a lot better of you than you think. :)

Hope I helped!