How to be more sociable?

Question

Felt harder to communicate with people. I can't think of any topic to talk, and usually all my answers in a conversation are short and sweet. How do i improve on it? And are there other activities that might help in training me to be more sweet talking? How can i talk like those salesman? Can activities like toastmaster help me in anyway?

Answer 1

I got the same problem!

Answer 2

I have the exact same problem, and in fact i asked a question about  it , and what  i got was, if you find somewhen els alone, just og up and say hi or something, start a small convo. And before you know it, they will be your friend. You can do that to more than 1 person too. Or go in a small group and start a convo, if tey're nice, they will talk to you

Answer 3

well if you are self concious this may be hard, seeing as how you have pointed out your problem im assuming your willing to work on it. A good method of improving your people skills is to start conversations with pretty much anyone you see. (Homeless people are the easiest to talk too unless they are on drugs). If you rat a crosswalk just say to the guy next to ya , "some wheather we been having huh" if hes nice he will say somptin back. Just go around starting small talk with people, then move onto woman when you gain a lil more confidence. Its a process but its definatly worth it man.