How to be myself when i'm with my bf? ?

Question

it seems i always try to please the ones i like by way acting or talking good or...just bad as h**l. btw i got a totally messed up life nd my boy seems to be the only hope of my life. but now i even HAVE NO CLUE HOW TO TALK TO PPL!!!

i need help, plz!~~

Answer 1

be yourself and do what you want to do, say what you want you to say and anyone who don't like you EXACTLY the way you are isn't worth knowing.

good luck ;) and i wish you a happy life

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Answer 2

Be calm, don't really talk about yourself, try not to stutter, etc

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Answer 3

try laying a f**t to lighten the mood

Answer 4

when you are hanging out with your friends or your bf, try not to talk too much about yourself. you can start conversing by asking your friends or bf how they are, or anything that would stir up THEIR interests.

just try to relax when you're with them.. don't take them as board of judges :)

be yourself :D

Answer 5

I know what you mean!  I'm a major flirt and I seem to automatically slip into this "mode" where I speak act/behave differently to normal.  it's not the kind of thing you can keep up for long and I can honestly say i've never found a decent guy through flirting/acting like that.  You're aware that you aren't being yourself, so it's as simple as recognising when you start "acting", taking a deep breath and snapping out of it.

Answer 6

Everybody is the same way.

Your showing the way you feel in your actions. People understand.  I wouldn't worry about it, time will create a feeling of comfort, and then you can speak freely. Just keep being the way you are things will work out.

Answer 7

The biggest problem I have with new girls is I know they are planning out the entire relationship and thinking about how they are gonna FIX my problems or trying to find a way to deal with my problems.  Basically a girls mind goes into overdrive.  

RELAX... Its a simple word with a powerful meaning.

The guy is not planing out his life with you and usually a guy who has a girl stops caring about his image about 2 mins after he's your boyfriend.  He wants to play with video games,cars and other guys stuff.  Try to get into what he likes.  Guys NEVER want to try to get into girls stuff and I think there is no way you can get a guy to honestly try to get into girl stuff.