How to become less of a pervert?

Question

I wanna become less of a perv by september (beginning of my school year). I'm a major one right now. I don't look at p**n but I make innapropiate comments. How can I stop this or is it not possible. Do you know anyone who has made the change?

Answer 1

Can't help you out with this one. I really enjoy being a thought perv.  I have never-ever acted out on any thought or feeling but I really enjoy thinking, feeling extreme thoughts. No-one will ever be hurt by what I think and it does not interfere with a normal life. Guage your level of perversion, make sure it's not just a case of "what an @sshole", make adjustments. Perverts can be perfectly acceptable people if you can control it.

Answer 2

Make up your mind not to be a pervert. Thats all you hav to do. If you want bad enough not to be one, then you wont. but its gonna take will power and you have to REALLY WANT TO STOP.

Answer 3

Pray. hey i know, that's not wht u probably thought of as the answer, but in the long run, if u become kinda religious at least u will c the morality & if u accept it, u'll start thinking more about it. & i empathize with u don't worry. nobody's perfect!!

Answer 4

Are you a capricorn? Cap males are kind of pervy.

Well, you are taking the first step in realizing that you might have a problem. First thing you do, is IMMEDIATELY recognize that you are about to say something inappropriate. Stop yourself from making the comment. Then tell yourself why it's not appropriate. Make it a thing that you project on others. How are you making others feel when you say this stuff... Keep in mind, you will need to repeat this routine atleast a month before you cure yourself.

Good Luck

Answer 5

stop being a yankees fan

Answer 6

its good to know that you want to change. Gain more respect for women by opening doors for them and other courtesy things like that. Think about what you say before you say it. If it's perverted, knock it down, and try not to allow yourself to think that way. Think about the golden rule. Would you want someone to make perverted comments about you if it hurt you? Probably not. You should also get someone to talk to that won't think your stupid and will hold you accountable for what you say and do. Like an accountability partner. Hang in there...

Answer 7

think before you talk.

Answer 8

I used to be one, but then I hung out with people who weren't as pervy. Its worked. I still make a s*x joke every now and then, nothing wrong with that.

Answer 9

See a therapist!!!  I hate Yankee fans anyway.  BOSTON ALL THE WAY!!!

Answer 10

You must have not have the ability to see yourself as you'd like others to, or you wouldn't make these comments. First of all you have to learn to monitor your behavior and become aware of yourself each time you have an urge to give an inappropriate comment. Second you have to learn to say no to the urge and come up with a more positive response.