My ex husband and I have been divorced for 5 years. We had 2 kids together and our kids are grown. My ex and I get along ok, we very seldom see each other and when we do it's at a store or someplace like that. I don't ask my kids or anyone else anything about him. I met a man 2 years ago and he asked me to marry him. When I told family members I'm getting married, the first words out of some of their mouths was, "What about your ex?" I told them my ex has nothing to do with this and why are they even bringing him up? They say they don't want me to hurt him and I do not understand why they say those things. They all have ex's and when they met someone else and got married, I never said those things to them about their ex's. What's the best way to handle these people?
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