How to boost self confidence...

Question

I have no self confidence at all. I don't do that well in school, I always look at myself like in the mirror I see myself as I'm ugly and fat but everyone tells me i'm not.idk. The only time I've had a boyfriend he cheated on me, and I'm always rejected. I really like this kid and i dont know if he likes me back he sometimes acts like it but he says that he wants to hang out but like does nothing. we're both really shy so idk whats gonna happen. he's like the only thing keeping me going now. ive had thought of suicide in the past, i've had a rough year, so i desperately need something to help me pick myself back up. does anyone have the same problem or know what to do? i'd really appreciate it and thanks a lot to everyone.

Answer 1

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im sorry you feel this way

suiside is NOT the answer !

ok first things first

SCHOOL

just study and do homework

if your having trouble stay after class and ask the teacher for help

Doing good in school is something you can control and can fix at any point you are there

Dont look at yourself fat and ugly!

everyone is pretty in there own skin !

maybe try a new look that may flatter you better so next time you look in the mirror you will be like "wow i look really good" and instead of looking at flaws in the mirror look at everything that makes you, you and beautiful .

and dont feel guilty or any regret that he cheated

he obviously isnt good enough for you.

and try flirting alittle with your crush and hang out with him more :]

dont make the flirting obvious but flirt alittle and have some fun !

and instead of thinkging thats your always regected ! try joing clubs make new friends and maybe even find a boyfriedn while joining a club !

school gives you endless posibilities just ask your guidence counsler what you can do to make new friends and do better in school :]

and remeber everyones beautiful in one way or another !

the only ugly in the world is war and fighting :]

if you need someone to talk to just message me :]

im always here to help!

Answer 2

yeaa

i have the same problems. and my boyfriend cheated on me too. but yeah guys are age are just a******s so dont even worry about them. i have depression and im on some meds, they helped my depression but i've been having suicidal thoughts lately. life just sucks.

we should make a deal, if you dont commit suicide then i wont. we can get through this together. teenage years are rough but people say it gets better eventually. so lets just hang on till eventually when life is a blast and theres no worries.

:D

im 15 btw

send me a message if you'd like.

hope i helped out a little

:D