How to break it to mom?

Question

Shes just always asking me what i do when i go downtown, im almost 17. shes always like its too dark outside to go, or like treats me like a little kid andugh.... what to say to wake the thought ? im sick of this

Answer 1

you're 16?? i say you are a little kid. = / hate to break it to you...

Answer 2

When you're older you'll realize she is looking out for your safety. The world today is unpredictable and she is being cautious and a typical caring Mom. When you get a job and make a living and can support yourself you can move out be on your own and do whatever you want but until you;re older, you have to do what she says.

Answer 3

If you are only 17, your mother certainly still has the right to ask where you are going. Regardless of age, if you live in her home she has the right to ask you that....

She is your mother, and as mothers, we want to know that our children are safe and that we don't have to worry about them.  Give her a break, and for a change maybe just let her know with out her having to ask.... you may find that your proactive approach to keeping her informed goes a long way with her treating you like an adult.

Answer 4

moms do whats right for you.

Answer 5

its a phase that all teenagers go thru'.you have two choices either you rebel (which is useless) or you prove to your mother you are growing into a responsible adult.

you view it as nagging but if you look at it in another way its more being concerned...i see no harm in you sitting your mom down and telling her how you feel.

i feel if you would tell her beforehand where you are going...with whom and when you will be back or that you will call if it gets late...

you say ur 17...i still tell my husband and he tells me and our parents still tell us or enquire if we go out late.....its just caring my dear....appreciate it.....you won't be mad then...

take care...and God bless

Answer 6

If you still live with your mom, you should respect her and answer her questions.  If you're not doing anything wrong then it shouldn't be a big deal to you.

Answer 7

She only does that cause she cares . w

ould you rather her say nothing and you end up hurt or dead. man y teens have parents that dont care be thankful you have a mom that does .