How to break out of a stereotype? ?

Question

Ok, so I used to get teased a lot, but I changed schools and now I'm pretty much accepted...I'm not superpopular but nobody makes fun of me and I have a few kids to hang out with. But I still feel like a total loser and I have like no self-confidence and find it hard to be close to people because I'm afraid I'll be rejected. I feel like this is holding me back from ever being normal. How can I stop thinking of myself as a loser?

Answer 1

I am curious as to what could be making u feel this ugly what is the real problem? I teach my children to accept who they are if u don't love u then don't expect others to. u need to live u r young people will always say bad things so stop being so concerned about others. I was teased too for having ugly glasses and shoes but my parents were poor so thats what i could afford. I have lived to see those same people grow up to be worthless human beings. people don't matter. Chin up and be brave be urself or figure out who u r. LOVE UUUU and don't expect anything from anyone life is cruel people r cruel.

Answer 2

Just try to forget about those people and focus on yourself, your grades, and getting into a good college!

Believe me when I tell you NOBODY from high school matters but YOU.  These years are such a short drop in the bucket compared to the rest of your life.  If you earn good grades and get into college, get scholarships, get your MBA or something then you'll be their boss.

That's how you feel better about yourself.  Being their boss!

Hang in there, honey!  

Answer 3

you probly are not ugly i stoped wearing glasses and i feel more confidont heck and i dont think im all that pretty but my guy friend that guys thing im cute haha

Answer 4

the past is in the past!

if you're being accepted at your new school, be happy, DON'T push them away. be glad you had the opportunity to 'start over' and find new friends. you'll be fine, don't worry about it!

Answer 5

"I feel like this is holding me back from ever being normal."

first

of

all

there

is

NO

SUCH

THING

as

normal

in

high

school

people

think

oh

this

is

the

normal

way

to

be

and

this

is

how

you

should

look

and

this

is

how

you

should

act

but

they're

all

just

insecure

so

they

get

in

their

cliques

and

all

look

the

same

it

is

so

ridiculous

quit

worrying

about

being

accepted

and

being

"cool"

and

being

"popular"

you

are

not

ugly

you

are

not

worthless

you

are

not

a

loser

you

are

you

and

fine

the

way

you

are

you

have

something

amazing

to

offer

to

the

world

you

need

some

inspiration

in

your

life...

I

recommend

that

you

get

this

book:

http://www.amazon.com/365-Days-Taste-Ber...

it

is

so

amazing

with

so

much

inspiration

it

will

lift

your

spirits

I

think

you

should

also

watch

some

videos

of

this

woman:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tmc0BvY96...

she

has

a

lot

of

advice

you

might

see

my

advice

as

ridiculous

but

it

really

does

work

you

need

to

stop

worrying

about

all

this

stressful

school

stuff

by

the

way

if

you

feel

ugly

then

you

should

do

something

to

feel

better

like

getting

a

haircut

or

a

fun

makeover

at

the

mall

or

from

someone

you

know

just

don't

share

makeup

though

you

could

get

viruses

and

stuff

well

you

just

need

to

start

believing

you

are

great

good

luck

Answer 6

Everybody goes through that phase where they think that they're ugly. And about 100% of people would like to change something about their appearance. You are not abmormal. Plus, it's what's on the inside that counts anyway. You're not a looser, you just have a low self esteem, and low self confidence. Try doing this: tape a really good picture of yourself to the corner of your mirror. Even on your worst days, you'll still know you're hot. Tell yourself everyday that youre amazing. Focus on your good attributes rather than you're bad ones. For example, instead of saying I have a really big nose, focus on your really great legs, or something lol. And never try to be like anyone else. If you need any advice or anything you can email me ^__^.

EDIT:

Oh, and nowadays they have some really cute glasses. Some people look even better in the right glassess than they do regularly... just saying.