How to buy a bra alone?

Question

i wanna get to the mall to buy some underwear and stuff like that, but idk how to get there. would you go for "amy (bff) invited me to go to the mall with her, and she's gonna pick me up." if you were my parents? then i could just walk to the mall alone, but i am DEADLY scared of getting in trouble... or me and my mum are going to target tomorrow, how could i lose her for enough time to pick out a bra and buy it, then how do i hide the bag? any other ideas on how to buy one? thanks!

Answer 1

You mother has probably been waiting for you to ask her for one.  In the meantime, you can measure around you body right under the breast for the size, and from there you can figure out the cup size.  They start from beginner's bras which are AAA, AA, and move on to A, B, C, etc...

Don't go without someone with you.  The trip with your friend sounds nice.

Answer 2

why do u need to hide that ur getting a bra? out of all the people, ur mom should understand. she wants u to have no support and have saggy b***s?? if u arent devoloped yet, dont worry about a bra.. when u notice ur devoloping.. ur mom should know too and she'll take u to the store and stuff..

Answer 3

Getting a bra is nothing to be ashamed of. Tell your Mom you need to buy a bra, she will understand! After all she was a girl once too. You can probably even get her to give you the money.

Just don't pick out trashy lingerie.

Answer 4

I have no idea on this at all at all

Answer 5

i am like this actually but i mean i tell my mom to go with me so i dont feel embarressed i mean try it it is way better a\]\

Answer 6

just tell your mom. your a girl your growing up. she's your mother she had the same thing happen to her. she got her period just like every other girl, she had to buy her first bra just like everyone else.

don't think of it as a weird or awkward thing. because it's not. your becoming a woman. just don't worry about it.

your mom might shed a tear though. lol all moms say "my little girl is growing up so fast"

lol.

just breathe and talk to her.

Answer 7

If you can't buy a bra with your mom present, who can you trust to buy a bra with!  Who do you think is going to wash that bra when you throw it in the laundry!?!

You should have help when you buy your first bra.  You need to be properly measured to ensure you get the correct size so it will be comfortable for you.

Every girl goes through this when she gets her first bra.  It's really no big deal.

Answer 8

just tell your mom mostly the truth.

explain to her that you need to go buy a bra, but you feel embarassed when someone accompanies with you to buy it. then suggest that she drop you off and leave you for a certain amount of time before picking you up again so that you are still under her watch, but still get your freedom too.

Answer 9

it's good to be independent, but she's your mom. that's what moms are for. she knows girls need bra's obviously, so just be open with her about it, even if you're scared.

Answer 10

Everybody goes through this at some point. I remember when I did I was so scared to talk to my mom about it. Luckly I have a sister about the same age who did the talking for me. But honestly, my mom was cool with it and your mom will be too. She expects that one day you will need one. Just talk to her